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I Stopped Waiting to Be Touched and Started Touching Myself

ATarnished Last Updated:Sep 16.2026

It took him five years to learn that self-love is the one thing no one else can ever replace.

So, a little rewind. I discovered Lovense about five years ago. Back then I had a huge crush on a girl who meant the world to me, but we lived 500 km apart. We were really into each other, I was 22, and as you can imagine, we were horny as hell. So I gifted her a Lush. We had so much fun and such a real sense of closeness. It was incredible. I gave her a Lush and received her heart.

But then our lives went separate ways, and I asked myself... what now?

I just wanted to have good times. I was curious about all the pleasure that could be felt, and I wanted to try things without judgment.

So I started to see the answer. The best gift I could give at that point was a treat for myself: a pleasure tool, something to take care of me. I started with the Max 2. THAT was an experience. Then came the Domi 2. I had a partner, a lover at the time, and I thought I could buy a toy for both of us to enjoy. After five long years of new experiences and toys given to people I loved, or to myself, I still take care of every single one of them. And look at this collection. I fell in love with the brand, the possibilities, the connection.

You might ask: did I ever receive any of these as a gift? Sadly, no. But I'm saving up for a Gush 2 Motion and I'm halfway there, so hopefully soon! Anyway, here is the point of my story:

Pleasing others is good. It's the best feeling in the world. But never forget to treat yourself and take care of yourself, because self-love and self-care can never be replaced by someone else's love or care. They can only complete each other. You have no control over whether someone else cares for you, but YOU have control over caring for yourself. Give to others, but keep a little love for yourself.