Lovense Distance Index 2026

What 5 million remote sessions through Lovense reveal

The people we love may be separated from us by mountains and oceans, but love still finds a way. Drawn from more than 5 million remote sessions, this report shows how intimacy holds up across miles and time zones.

Oct 2025 – Sep 2026observation period

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5M+ remote sessions.
20.4 minutes each.
Nearly two centuries in total.

196

years of uninterrupted connection

5.036Msessions in one year 20.42minutes per session, on average 102.8Mminutes in total 1.714Mhours in total 196years of connection

Adult couple sharing Valentine's Day together

Typical weekday15K

Feb. 1422K

Feb. 1518K

+49% vs matched weekday

Valentine's Day was the busiest day of the year.

Connections jumped 49% over comparable weekdays, to 22K sessions in a single day.

But something was off. The median session lasted only 6.6 minutes, shorter than a typical day.

Valentine's Day's volume is compared with matched weekdays.

The longest domestic connection time appeared in Japan.

62.5

minutes

10% of sessions in Japan lasted more than 62.5 minutes, the longest domestic sessions we recorded.

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12.6 minmedian duration 62.5 minOnly 10% last this long

"Some people, once they connect, can't bring themselves to say goodnight."

10 to 11 p.m. is when couples are most likely to connect.

Throughout the week, evenings are busiest, and this one hour tops them all.

Long-distance couple connecting between separate homes at night

For many couples, Lovense fits into the last quiet part of the day: a way of saying "I'm here" before sleep.

Based on each user's local time at the end of a session.

Some couples came back the very same day.

37.8%

connected two or more times

More than 1 in 3 days that someone connected, they came back two or more times.

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One in four sessions crossed a national border.

25%of connections

“Even with daylight between us, I still want to connect with you.”

Of the Top 20 connection routes, 11 cross a national border and 9 stay within one country.

Connected globe showing the United States and Australia

Far away, still frequent: Australia to U.S.

11.8K

sessions

Even with the entire Pacific Ocean between them, they still connected tens of thousands of times. That takes planning.

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Distance changes the shape of intimacy, not its persistence.

196 years

Across millions of sessions, connection adds up to something much larger than the sum of its parts.

Valentine's Day

Feb. 14 saw the most — but shortest — connections of the year. The day after, sessions ran longer.

10–11 p.m.

Across every routine and time zone, the busiest hour is still before bed.

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More than 1 in 3 connection days include a second session.

Privacy statement. This report uses aggregated, anonymized data. It does not identify individual users or describe any single person's behavior. We respect the privacy of our users and do not use these findings to track anyone.

Thank you to everyone who continues to love Lovense. We will keep working to make every feeling reach beyond distance.

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Lovense Distance Index 2026

5M+ remote sessions.
20.4 minutes each.
Nearly two centuries in total.

Valentine's Day was the busiest day of the year.

February 15.
That's when they stayed.

The longest domestic connection time appeared in Japan.

10 to 11 p.m. is when couples are most likely to connect.

Some couples came back the very same day.

One in four sessions crossed a national border.

Far away, still frequent: Australia to U.S.

Distance changes the shape of intimacy, not its persistence.

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Lovense Distance Index 2026

5M+ remote sessions.20.4 minutes each.Nearly two centuries in total.

Valentine's Day was the busiest day of the year.

The longest domestic connection time appeared in Japan.

10 to 11 p.m. is when couples are most likely to connect.

Some couples came back the very same day.

One in four sessions crossed a national border.

Far away, still frequent: Australia to U.S.

Distance changes the shape of intimacy, not its persistence.

For security purposes, please verify your account via email.

Account Verification Required

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5M+ remote sessions.
20.4 minutes each.
Nearly two centuries in total.