KINK & BDSM

There are a bunch of glove styles you can incorporate into your kink play. Some are very commonplace, others … well … read on to …

Aside from ties or silk scarves, handcuffs are what most newly-kinky (and even veterans) think of when it comes to bondage. Because of this, you …

Kinky shoes and boots are a staple of any fetish wardrobe, but bondage ballet boots are one of the trickier pairs to wrap your head/feet …

WHAT ARE THEY? Dog masks are fun and, some would say, essential gear when it comes to kinky pet play. If you identify as a …

WHAT ARE THEY? Bondage paws are another accessory you can use during your “pet play”. They can be for any animal that has “paws” (not …

This is a question I hear a lot – it’s also one that I’ve had personal bumps in hookups or relationships as a result of …

Smoking fetish, also called capnolagnia, is where someone finds sexual gratification in watching someone smoke (or smoking themselves). There’s also the undeniable parallel to a …

Have you ever felt like there should be a place where you can share your desires openly—especially in something as personal as BDSM dating—without feeling …

Welcome! Today we are looking at another set of terms in our “let’s clear up these BDSM ideas” series – it’s not really called that, …

Today we are looking at another BDSM term and clearing up some misconceptions and bringing to light interesting details… Femdom This term simply means Female …

I’ve been on the kick lately of looking at BDSM terminology – mostly because it can be confusing to some people, especially those new to …

​​​​ Sigh, one-size-fits-all lingerie. I love it and hate it. It can be a quick solution for a sexy party or steaming evening. But, if …

A queening chair might sound fancy, but they’re really just a smart and comfortable way to enjoy intimacy. Whether you’re exploring new ways to connect …

​​​​First, I’m going to add the disclaimer that this particular fetish might seem very alluring, but there’s far more than meets the eye – take …

I started my Shibari journey a couple of years ago but only got into it seriously in the past year. Even after all the seminars, …