12 Sexting Tips That Will Drastically Improve Your Game

Scrabble tiles spelling the word Sexting

 

 

When it comes to sexting, so many people have no idea where to begin.

 

Let's start here:

 

 

1. FORGET THE ROADMAP


 

There are no magic words that will get your sexting partner turned on... it's more complex than that. Everyone is different, so what turns on one person may turn off another.

 

It's more of finding the right combination of time, place and content for your particular sexting partner.

 

 

2. START SLOWLY


 

Don’t jump into hot, heavy, and crude too fast. Take time to build up the sexual tension – like a trail of sexy bread crumbs.

 

If you just finished a date with your girlfriend or boyfriend and immediately start sexting, then you're missing the point. Sexting helps build up sexual tension before meeting up.

 

It can be used, essentially, as modern-day foreplay.

 

You can tease and talk dirty with each other all day- so by the time you see each other, you'll want to rip each other's clothes off.    

 

 

3. STAY IN YOUR COMFORT ZONE     


 

Don’t spout graphic content unless it’s something you would normally do anyway. All you need to do it step it up a notch – anything else will show your struggle and not be as hot at you hope.

 

 

4. CHOOSE YOUR WORDS WISELY


 

You’re not aiming for Hemmingway or even Harlequin, but your vernacular should include a healthy dose of VERBS and adjectives, not to mention the appropriate nouns (think “pussy” not “vagina”), we’re not at medical school.

 

No idea how to talk dirty? Learn more here:

50+ Phrases - Beginner's Guide on How to Talk Dirty

 

5. KEEP THINGS SIMPLE


 

Don’t let texts get too long. Break them up and spread them out in time to make your partner quiver with anticipation.

 

 

6. TEXT AT THE RIGHT TIME  


 

Don’t send a racy photo when you know they are in a meeting. Send a sexy text-only message if you really need to get them horny.

 

And on the note of photos ….

 

Unless you’re 100% sure they’re not going to be a dick down the line and make them public, only send nudes that don’t include your face.

 

 

7. TURN OFF AUTOCORRECT


 

Giggling and grinning during sexting session is cool, but not because you’ve accidentally sent, “I want to duck you so hard.”

 

However, don’t have crappy spelling or grammar. And don’t use abbreviations.

 

No. Just no.

 

 

8. AVOID DRUNK SEXTING


 

When drunk, we are not as sexy as we think we are.

 

 

9. KEEP YOUR PROMISES


 

Actually, do what you say you’re going to do. If nothing else, don’t go overboard with fantasies that aren’t possible. Like, “I’m going to do you on a pile of money I stole from the bank.”

 

 

10. STAY AWAY FROM EMOJIS


 

No. I don’t care how much the “point + ok sign” makes you giggle like a 4th grader. 99.9999% of the time, they’re just not cool to put in. And if you think you’ve found the .0001%, chances are you’re still in the other group.

 

 

11.  INCLUDE THEM


 

Get them to message you back. Don’t make it a one-sided event. One simple way is to ask questions. One BIG way is to play games.

 

Need game ideas? Check this out:

17 Naughty Sexting Games You Must Try Now

 

 

12. CHANGE UP LOCATIONS   


 

Don’t just sext during your day off or when you’re bored on the commute to work. Message when they least expect it.

 

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Got any other sexting advice? Share in the comments!

 

Also, if you found this article helpful, you might like these:

 

 

Have a sexy day!

Robyn

 

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