The First Steps of a BDSM Party – A Basic Guide
Image by Espressolia from Pixabay The one thing I’ve noticed in my years of going to kink parties is how new attendees (people...
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Your BDSM Journey – It’s Okay To Change
Image by Espressolia from Pixabay First, I want to premise that when I say "your BDSM journey", it doesn't need to involve whips...
Nonverbal Safe Words – Other Ways to Communicate
Gerd Altmann from Pixabay I’ve talked a lot about safe words – after all, they are critical to any BDSM play. But...
9 Reasons the Mile High Club is a Bad Idea
Image by Paul Brennan from Pixabay Straight from the dedicated employees who work miles in the sky .... here are reasons they say...
BDSM Cat Toys and Accessories Ideas
Image by Юрий Сидоренко from Pixabay Want to get into kitty play but don't know what BDSM cat toys and accessories are out...
Urethra Sounding – Basics & Safety of Cock Stuffing
WHAT IS SOUNDING? In the medical sense, sounding is the practice of inserting a stainless steel rod into any passage...
Simple Guide on How to Insert A Urethra Sound
The act of inserting a metal rod up your pee hole can be terrifying for some people. For others, it...
FetLife Tips Part 2 – Get the Most Out Of This Site
We looked at part one of FetLife Tips! Now, here’s Fetlife Tips Part 2! SPEAK UP TO SHAME I’m an...
Three B’s of Extreme Kink Footwear – Ballet, Boots, Bondage
Kinky shoes and boots are a staple of any fetish wardrobe, but bondage ballet boots are one of the trickier...
Understanding BDSM Terminology – Fetish vs Kink
This is a question I hear a lot – it’s also one that I’ve had personal bumps in hookups or...
Learning About BDSM Practices – The Smoking Fetish
Smoking fetish, also called capnolagnia, is where someone finds sexual gratification in watching someone smoke (or smoking themselves). There’s also...
The 101 of BSDM Dating – The Pros and Pitfalls of Kinky Romance
I was thinking about BDSM and how it differs (or is the same) to vanilla dating. But when I looked...