101 Kinky Things – An Extensive List of Kinks and Fetishes

There are WAY more than 101 kinks and fetishes out there, but let’s look at some of them – for curiosity, for fun … for science.

Also, understand this list is a mixture of Kinks AND Fetishes (fetishes being something that isn’t necessarily sexual, but people get a degree of sexual arousal from it).

Ready to roll up your sleeves and get dirty?

NOTE: (E) = Edge play, kink with an increased risk/danger factor

  • 1950’s Fetish – roleplay of the traditional, American, nuclear family – can be practiced in reverse
  • 24/7 – a power exchange relationship that functions 24/7
  • Abduction Seduction – kidnapping someone but in a loving manner
  • Adult Baby – acting like an infant, wearing diapers and receiving care
  • Aliens – fantasy about having sex with aliens, often abduction and forced
  • Amazonian – wanting to get it on with really strong, authoritative women
  • Amputees – getting turned on by people with amputations
  • Anal Sex – some people just like it in the butt
  • Armpits – arousal or enjoyment from smelling, licking, or kissing armpits
  • Autofellatio – a guy giving a blowjob to himself
  • Bare-backing – sex without a condom (E)
  • Bathroom Control – deciding when someone can use the restroom
  • Biting – gimme those teeth

Can you guess what fetish “Nyotaimori” is? 

Hint: Food

  • Blood Choking – making someone pass out by restricting blood flow to the brain (E)
  • Blood Play – sexual arousal from seeing, letting, or playing with blood. Has many other subgenres like vampirism (E)
  • Body Painting – painting bodies, treating the skin as a human canvas
  • Bondage – restraining or restricting movement
  • Branding – marking the skin with a heated object to form an image, word, or symbol (E)
  • Breast or Nipple Torture – the equivalent to CBT, causing pain to the breasts and nipples (E)
  • Breath Play – coking by restricting breathing (E)
  • Caning – stroking someone with a cane
  • CBT – cock and ball torture – causing pain to male genitalia (E)
  • Chasity – no sex for you
  • Clothed Sex – sex with clothes on, so the fabric goes inside you
  • Collaring – wearing a collar to show you are a submissive. Can be as serious as a wedding ring in some BDSM circles
  • Consensual Non-consent – also known as rape play (still consensual)
  • Corseting/Tight-lacing – shape changing of the body through corsetry, sometimes includes breath-play

Want to learn more about corsets? Check this out:

Corset Guide – Get the Sexy Shape You Crave

  • Cross Dressing – wearing another “gender’s” clothing
  • Culcockery – when a male partner loves watching his woman have sex with another man – a form of humiliation
  • Cupping – heating up a specialized round cup that creates a vacuum on the skin – often used in Chinese therapy
  • Dacryphilia – turned on by tears/crying
  • Double Penetration – one penis in the vagina, another in the ass
  • Electric Play – the “safest” way is by using a TENS unit (E)
  • Enema – douching or cleaning the anal cavity or rectum
  • Exhibitionism – enjoying when other people watch you having sex
  • Face Fucking – blowjob where the man roughly fucks someone’s mouth
  • Facial Hair – you like beards and mustaches etc.
  • Figging – inserting a peeled piece of fresh ginger into the anus
  • Fire Play – play that involves fire (E)
  • Fisting – using a fist to penetrate the vagina or anus
  • Flogging – striking someone with a multi-tailed whip
  • Food Play – using food during sex
  • Foot Fetish – getting turned on by feet
  • Forced Feeding – feeding someone so they gain weight
  • Furry Yiff – dressing up in furry animal costumes itself isn’t considered sexual, but if you DO have sex while in costume, it’s not just “furry”

Want to learn about the non-sexual side of Furry? Check this out:

What is Furry? The Truth Behind the Costume.

  • Garters and Stocking – many men get turned on seeing a woman in this (now) uncommon underwear
  • Gerontophilia – attraction to someone in a much older age group
  • Golden Showers – peeing one someone (E)
  • Graphoerotica – writing words on someone’s body
  • Gun Play – arousal from use or threat of a firearm (E)
  • Hand Fetish – well, people like feet, why not hands?
  • Hermaphrodites – fetish for someone with male and female body parts
  • Human Furniture – where someone loves to act like a piece of furniture
  • Impact Play – striking someone with various objects to create a “sting” or “thud” sensation
  • Impregnation – getting someone pregnant, typically from a man’s point of view (E)
  • Intelligence Fetish – sexual arousal from intellectually stimulating conversation or debates
  • Knife Play – play using knives or sharp objects. Can be sensory or a “threat” roleplay (E)
  • Knismolagnia – arousal through tickling
  • Lactation – when you get off on women with milk-producing breasts (usually drinking)
  • Long Hair – turned on by long, beautiful locks
  • Loud Sex – yep, getting off knowing other people can hear you having sex
  • Medical Play – play or scene using medical equipment/tools (E)
  • Mummification – wrapping someone entirely to limit movement

  • Needle Play – involves the use or threat of needles (E)
  • Nyotaimori – eating sushi off a person’s body
  • Orgasm Control – controlling someone’s orgasms through signals and cues (different from denial
  • Orgasm Denial – not allowing someone to have an orgasm for a certain period of time
  • Orgies – lots and lots of sex with lots and lots of people
  • Pecattiphilia – fetish for sinning by breaking religious rules
  • Play Piercing – temporary piercing the flesh for aesthetic or sensory reactions (E)
  • Pony Play – using someone as a pony (including riding). Can include costumes
  • Pregnancy Fetish – usually from males, thought to be from hormonal reactions
  • Puppy Play – treating someone like (or pretending to be) a dog
  • PVC – to love wearing PVC clothing
  • Queening – also called face-sitting. Oral sex with the woman on top (or just sitting on top without oral sex)
  • Rough Sex – includes biting, scratching, power play etc.
  • Rubber – to love wearing rubber clothing
  • Scat Play – play with fecal matter (E)
  • Sensation Play – running different materials across the skin to create different sensations. Eg. silk, burlap, brush bristles
  • Sensory Deprivation – taking away various senses, like sight with a blindfold, plug for the ears etc.
  • Sex Toys – a general love of using sex toys, but people can have a specific love for one kind of toy (eg. butt plugs)

Butt Plugs, Dildos, and Dolls. Oh MY! Learn more about sex toys here:

A Comprehensive Guide to Sex Toys

  • Shibari – Japanese rope bondage
  • Sleepsack Fetish – comes from an arousal from closed spaces. The sub gets into a sleepsack, bag, or box etc.
  • Sounding – inserting metal rods into the urethral openings (originally a medical term) (E)
  • Spanking – tap dat ass
  • Swinging – committed couples consensually indulging in sex with other couples
  • Tattoos – some like giving them, some like getting them (E)
  • Texting and Audio – Audiobooks, messages etc.
  • Trampling – being under someone’s foot/shoe. Can be related to foot fetish, but not necessarily
  • Transformation – the fetish for transforming or changing people into other people, objects, or creatures – popular in Japanese hentai
  • Uniform Fetish – pretty straightforward, you get turned on by uniforms
  • Vacuum Bed – a device that is two sheets of latex with the air sucked out and the person inside breathing through a tube. A form of sensory deprivation (E)
  • Vampire – role-playing as a vampire (or victim of one). Can, but doesn’t have to, include bloodplay
  • Voyeurism – watching other people have sex
  • Watersports – playing with urine (E)
  • Wax Play – play with dripping hot wax on the skin
  • Werewolf Play – same as vampire play but with werewolves
  • Wrestling – play fighting for body contact and power control
  • Xenophilia – intense attraction towards people from other cultures or strangers
  • Yaoi – a fetish for male-on-male sexuality in anime, manga, or fan fiction. Aimed at a female audience, not a gay male (Bara)
  • Zentai – a fetish to wear full lycra bodysuits

Which of these floats your boat? Dare to share in the comments!

120 thoughts on “101 Kinky Things – An Extensive List of Kinks and Fetishes

  1. Are there women that not only like receiving anal sex but they want the man to make it hurt as much as possible. Such as going balls deep in one massive thrust with no lube and just keep pounding? If so what is it called?

  2. i have a clown fetish. i honestly get so turned on by the idea of being forced to act as a clown and be humiliated 😛 clowns in general are pretty hot tho.

    also a sadomasochist and petplayer. im in a free use relationship and my favorite sexual activity is being tied up and spanked.

  3. What about people who are ambidextrous? Big turn on. Example, they can pay bills with one hand and finger your bum with the other. DAMN!!! I’d give my right arm to be ambidextrous.

  4. i actually have a kink for medieval suits of armor. ive never heard or seen anyone talk about it

    1. Awww! Armour fetish! Not only medieval but sci-fi armour too (Mandalorian is my porn No.1)
      I expected it to be quite popular (it IMHO isn´t that weird) but it seems there are no websites dedicated to it, while there are websites about totally weird stuff like furries, or swallowing.

  5. I like the feeling of women full weight Facesitting, stomach sitting, cock sitting, squashing, trampling me.

  6. Where my peggers at? I loove when my girlfriend rams her 14 inch strap on in my ass. Idk if that’s just me though

  7. What is the name of fetish where girl is getting pussylicked while she is doing something else or acting not interested.

  8. I have a kink for ladies in a chastity belt, with thigh bands even better. Also a kink for ladies dressed in leather and heavily tattooed ladies.

  9. I have a hair kink. Like, when someone plays with my hair. And a hand kink. And a spine kink…
    God Im so weird. O-O

    1. I’m with you there, but then I get lost in the thought of having there hands around my neck I-
      Yes

      1. How do I tell someone im dating that this what im into? I’d class myself vanilla as I’ve never experienced it but it’s excited me on porn. He’s got plenty of fetishes which some is never heard of,, EG sounding

      2. I’m surprised by the number of women I sleep with that are into choking and hair pulling. Many are embarrassed to make it known. That why when I’m talking to a new girl and it’s pretty apparent that we’re going to hook up, I’ll try to bring up the subject in a casual manner.

    1. I’ve seen videos of women dressed sexy, but business like just reading regular books. I couldn’t imagine stroking to that, but I’m sure that many do.

  10. Always been a pushover for great legs in heels. I get drawn in every time and simply can’t resist. As a man, I wish I had that kind of control over a women. Oh well, destined to endure and enjoy most times in anonymity.

    1. You would love the office building I work in. It’s almost as if they made high heels mandatory. lol

  11. Is there another term for cuckqueen? I like watching/knowing my man is with another woman.

    1. Cuckqueen is the name for the female version of Cuckolds so if you enjoy your man being with another woman then yes Cuckqueen is your label.

      If it were the opposite situation and you were the woman with a Cuckold partner and he enjoyed seeing you with another man then you would be a Hotwife.

  12. What is the fetish if you like to beat beaten (I mean really thrown around and hit. Almost abusively) for breaking dom/sub rules,Then soothed and made love to?

    1. First bit sounds like a bdsm relationship. The last bit is just the expectation after BDSM, aftercare.

  13. Is anyone out there into cock biting ?
    Not biting that is painful, biting that feels awesome !
    It is the ultimate turn on !

    1. I am. I find it amusing when a guy gets pleasure from my mouth. I actually like to bite a little while giving a blow job.

  14. hey so I’m like really into England. I love I hear those British accents. I get excited when I see the queen too. I just want someone to scream “YA BLOODY LIKE THAT” while pulling short black hair. Don’t know why tho just a big fan of England hehehe.

  15. Lol didnt know being pushed against the wall was actually a kink thought was just generalized under the rough category

  16. Im sorry but i have a fetish of sniffing panties lol fr. Not random ppl just girls im into…and squirters..but ig thats piss??

    1. Squirting is not piss, it’s a sexual discharge from the vagina, some women fake it by pissing but squirting and gushing is the female equivalent of ejaculating. I have a female friend who gushes when she cums, having had her gush on my face it’s definitely not piss.

      1. I would live to her gushed. My wife paddles me then makes me gi e her oral sex its wild. Wish she squirted either come or piss id love it.

  17. I guess its a mix of bondage, dominance/submission and puppy play, but i have a huge fetish for muzzles in particular. Not human ones, dog shaped ones, on a human. Bonus points if youre on your knees with your hands tied behind you.

      1. Felching is the act of sucking the cum from whatever hole with the mouth or with a straw. You may like some overstimulation as well if you like your pussy licked after you cum too.

  18. There must be one for when you like having sex in public areas but, more aroused by the risk of being caught.

    1. Hey can I ask you a question please or chat trying to find out wear I set I cant find mine

    2. I think any that fall under that category (kitten/puppy/horse/bunny/etc) is just put into the one umbrella term of petplay/pet play.

    1. If you like to receive pain, you are a masochist.
      If you like to inflict pain, you are a sadist.

    2. liking to inflict pain is sadism, and liking receiving pain is masochism. the combination of both is sadomasochism

        1. The short version is that you just enjoy “regular” sex. For example, the basic positions, penis into vagina. But there’s a bit more to it

        2. Someone who has casual sex with nothing really kinky going which is perfectly fine as long as you’re both enjoying yourselves.

  19. What’s the fetish if there is one cause there should be one lol

    When you love a woman giving you a blowjob but I mean constantly, even after you’ve already came, she swallows and continues sucking?

    1. Thats me!!! And i need to know if thats normal? Would it fall under overstimulation? Thats what my pervious lover told me that i need to stop because its so sensitive but i have an oral fixation

    2. I love doing this to my man… suck, swallow, and keep going, you can actually prolong the male orgasm beyond what you thought possible… I just keep going until you beg me to stop.

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