Finding Out About Cake Sitting – Connecting To Vanilla Life

Before you ask if this is code for some other kind of sexual act – like something you would find on urban-dictionary.com – I can tell you that it very much is exactly what the fetish says…

You sit on cake.

Well, you don’t have to SIT per se.

Cake sitting is a subcategory of “sploshing” (which focuses on the tactile and sexual nature of interacting with food) which is a sub-sub-category of WAM = Wet And Messy (which I’m sure you can figure out by yourself).

You’re probably wondering, “Why cake?”

Well … why not?

For some people who love this kink, they say that it’s the feel of the cake and icing against their skin as well as the sweetness.

I bet you’re still wondering … Why cake?!

LOL.

To get a handle on why some people are into WAM, maybe we can draw some parallels to common(ish) situations…

COMMON COMPARISONS


  • Men who love to watch women mud/oil wrestle
  • Licking chocolate sauce off a lover’s body
  • Liking the feel of moisturizer as you lather it on
  • Enjoying the sensation of massage oil
  • Porn/RL where the person is smeared with semen

INNOCENT COMPARISONS


  • We love to play in the mud
  • When we’re younger, we love to smoosh our food
  • Giggling when we get into fights with paints

Many of us, at some point in our lives, have felt a pleasant connection to a substance on our bodies. It doesn’t mean it was sexual, but we can still see that there’s not a huge jump to sploshing.

Also …

Some people have made mad cash going online and doing this stuff.

There can be side effects if someone isn’t careful – mostly yeast infections from sugar contact. But if someone is careful it can be avoided.

So, the next time you buy a cupcake, why not smear a little on your finger and ask your partner to lick it off – you’ll be one step closer to this delicious fetish

Favorite kind of cake? But do you love it enough to sit on it?

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