Lovense Flexer Fingering Vibrator Review – Pros & Cons

Lovense has come out with another toy, and you know what that means. It’s test and review time! Today is the Flexer fingering vibrator and it looks positively knee-buckling.  

So, let’s dive into everything from simple packaging to how the toy actually works – so you can decide if it’s something you want to spend your hard-earned money on.

WHAT IS FLEXER?


The Flexer fingering vibrator is a silicone, waterproof sex toy with three yummy motors. Two for the vibrations in the g-spot and clit points. The other controls the “fingering” motions of the toy – which is exactly what you’re imagining. But, the extra fun part? You can control them independently or together!

The come-hither movements are meant to mimic someone giving you the finger in the best way possible. And as we know, that type of action is something the g-spot utterly adores.

THE PACKAGING & APP


If you’ve bought a Lovense toy before, you’ll know what to expect. But if you’re new to the company, their packaging is high-quality yet simple.

Inside is a custom foam-core cut-out to house the toy and keep it safe during shipment (and I would recommend keeping it for storage just in case). There’s the user manual, magnetic charging cable, satin storage baggie, and Flexer.

Then there are the fun things you can get through the app. You can control Flexer (or any Lovense toy) through Bluetooth or long-distance features. There is music sync/react, a database of over 10,000 patterns, and if you’re a cam model it will of course work with the company’s tipping software.

FLEXER FINGERING VIBRATOR


The first thing I noticed is that the base is quite sleek – not bulky at all like some toys. Since Flexer is advertised for discreet public play, the bottom section needs to be comfortable when you’re sitting or moving around.

The neck is also average (at least in my experience), which isn’t a bad thing. You want something thin enough to be comfortable but have enough room to house all the mechanical stuff that makes it move in wonderful ways.

The g-spot and clit bump isn’t huge. I like this because some toys go overboard with their pinpoint and curved designs to get right up against the sweet spot. And this is ok for bedroom play, but I feel that something more subtle is better when you’re wearing it out and about (and especially sitting). That being said, the g-spot bump will work better than imagined because of the toy’s signature move – the fingering.

I found the motors quite powerful, which I like. But for anyone who isn’t a power queen, that’s okay. The toy is programmable – which means you can go into the app and program the low/med/high settings to whatever you want. The fingering moves were also quite nice – firm and pleasurable, especially with the vibrator going at the same time. But if you’re expecting this toy to finger you like a sexy vice grip, sorry that’s just not possible lol. You’ll need a human for that.

There are two points that I would maybe count as a negative, but they could be positives or non-existent issues for some. There could be some slippage with the toy while wearing it during public play. Sorry, if you’re a commando sort of person, but I would highly encourage some sort of panty to keep this little guy in place if you’re out of the bedroom.

Second, while the toy is very quiet considering the power, it’s not going to be something you are going to wear on ultra-high in a dead-quiet coffee shop without feeling paranoid. Those levels are best saved for clubs, walks along the street, or other places where other noise will compete. Otherwise, I would keep it on lower levels in quiet spots for the sake of others’ comfort.

Finally, don’t expect this toy to make you a fountain. Being able to squirt I think takes more than just a toy (at least for most people). I mean, I could be wrong. Who knows, there might be people out there who find this a fingering dream. However, put your bets down on intense pleasure, not guaranteed squirting.

FLEXER FINGERING VIBRATOR – END THOUGHTS


Looking at this, I’m sure some people out there might think it’s a great anal toy. And since it has a flared base, I guess. But there are actual anal toys in the Lovense library that I would recommend instead.

As for Flexer, I love this addition to the collection. It’s a nice change if you want something hands-free that will still do plenty of moving (as opposed to something like Nora, which needs you to use your hands, or something like Lush 3 which is great but only vibrates).

It looks like a fun edging toy as well – tease your partner until they go cross-eyed. All in all, I would highly recommend it.

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