Female Ejaculation – Are You Really Peeing on Your Partner?

“It’s urine!”

“It’s not urine!”

*Science papers being thrown at one another*

Okay. Enough is enough. Someone is going to get a paper cut on their genitals.

Even though I’ve already written a full how-to guide on squirting, it’s worth this extra aside to address the specific details about this phenomenon – and relieve a considerable amount of confusion surrounding female ejaculation.

So here we go…

1. SCIENCE HAS BEEN SLACKING


First, there haven’t been enough proper studies (and porn doesn’t count) for people to agree on what it is.

There have been a few legitimate attempts, but most of the data is based on subjective questionnaires – which do f-all.

2. IT’S NOT AS SIMPLE AS SQUIRTING


The data that HAS been accumulated tells us this:

There is more than one fluid and more than one place it comes from.

  • EJACULATION = comes out of the urethra but comes from the Skene glands surrounding it (aka. the female prostate). It’s whitish and comes in small amounts.
  • SQUIRTING = comes from the bladder and has similarities to urine (but really isn’t) … more of a very diluted, altered version. However, it also exists in the urethra as well. So…
  • GUSHING = clear fluid that comes from the bladder.

Therefore, things can come from the bladder but still be classified as something other than urine.

“But how can more than one fluid come from the same place?!”

Because…

People seem to forget how complex the human body is. We have glands and other lumps that produce dozens of hormones and other chemicals.

So, in essence, we have two fluids (ejaculation and whatever squirting is) the squirting seems to exist somewhere in the middle.

And how about this

  • Urine can contain traces of ejaculation fluid but in smaller amounts
  • Female secretions can contain traces of urine but in smaller amounts

None of this should be surprising since it all comes from the same closely-knit area.

And you know what?

None of it matters.

If you like it, go ahead and roll around it in.

If you don’t, then you’re not obligated to love it (but if you’re girl happens to be one of the few that can do it easily, and you’re not a fan, don’t make her feel like crap about it.)

What matters most is a positive sex experience between partners.

3. IT DOESN’T ALWAYS MEAN ORGASM


Some women orgasm and squirt at the same time. Some women gush without having the big-O.

The only thing I would pat myself on the back for is some serious g-spot work and a happy woman afterward.

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Studley Charmer 09/07/2019 - 12:00 am

Ive been with numerous women over the years and have never encountered a squirter. What are the concerns involved with a squirter after sex? Do you need to installed a pad before sex to protect your mattress? Is quirting a recent fad?

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Dave 04/10/2020 - 12:00 am

I would suggest, if youve got a normal bed mattress, to buy a vinyl or plastic mattress pad. If you have a waterbed, you dont have to worry about the mattress, but you might want to consider putting towels around the edges. In either case, youll be changing sheets.

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