Ever wondered if male dildos are real? Or can men use dildos? Then you’re in the right place. Male anal dildos are not just taboo or toys that only a select few get to enjoy, as in recent years, many men have chosen to indulge in prostate stimulation using these unique sex toys. Recent analysis of over 1 million sex toy sales and 300,000 reviews, have shown that butt plugs and male anal dildos make up a significant portion of male sex toy purchases.
Uniquely designed to provide targeted prostate stimulation, or just a full rectal feeling, male dildos can unlock sensations never felt before. This article aims to guide you through the world of male anal dildos, helping you understand their history, the science behind it and how you can have a safe and enjoyable experience.
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Male Anal Dildos Aren’t New: Exploring The History
Humans using objects for anal pleasure dates back centuries. For instance, in Ancient Greece, men would sometimes use stale bread with olive oil (yes, really) to fulfill their prostate stimulation needs. By the Victorian era, many upper-class men had various dildos usually made out of silver, ivory, and other precious materials.
Anal toys were introduced on the mass market by the late 19th century with Dr. Young’s Rectal Dilators, which were initially marketed as a medical device, marked the beginning of marketed anal toys. As time has gone on, male dildos have evolved from rudimentary, handmade tools to today’s sophisticated and body-safe toys made from silicone, glass, and metal.
Why Does It Feel So Good?
Ever thought can men orgasm anally? Then continue reading! Generally, those who were born female at birth would have a specific spot located in their vagina, called the G-spot, which when hit can provide immense pleasure.
Would you believe those who were assigned male at birth have the same? The prostate, otherwise known as the “male G-spot” is a tiny gland located about two inches inside the rectum and is brimming with nerve endings so when it’s gently stimulated, one can often achieve what is called a prostate climax or male anal orgasm.
Studies in the Journal of Sexual Medicine have demonstrated that targeted prostate stimulation can lead to more intense orgasms, so no wonder more and more men have been turning to dildos to experience a new form of satisfaction.
There Are SO Many Types
Like any other sex toy, male anal dildos can come in various shapes, sizes, materials and even with features to better suit different preferences, experience levels and more. We’ve put together a short list of different dildos and their key features.
| Type | Best for | Key features |
|---|---|---|
| Traditional Anal Dildos | Simple manual anal play | Non-vibrating, insertable, usually tapered with an anal-safe base. |
| Silicone Anal Dildos | Softer, more flexible feel | Soft body, more give, common beginner-friendly material. |
| Glass / Metal Anal Dildos | Firm pressure and temperature play | Rigid feel, smooth surface, easy to clean, can be warmed or cooled. |
| Anal Plugs | Fullness and hands-free wear | Narrow neck, wider bulb, designed to stay in place; vibrating versions are common. |
| Prostate Massagers | Targeted prostate stimulation | Curved shape aimed at the prostate; manual or vibrating options. |
| Adjustable / Dual-Stimulation Prostate Massagers | More precise fit and stronger prostate focus | Adjustable angle, often paired with external/perineum stimulation. |
| Anal Beads | Gradual buildup sensation | Beads increase in size, often include a retrieval ring or flared base. |
| Vibrating / Rotating Anal Beads | Stronger bead-style stimulation | Bead sequence plus vibration or rotation in newer models. |
| App-Controlled Anal Toys | Remote and interactive play | Long-distance control and customizable vibration or patterns. Touch-responsive sync features with content or toys. |
Overwhelmed by too many choices? Here are the best anal toys for you!
Edge 2 – Prostate Massager
- Flexible neck for adjustable angles
- Designed for full-body orgasms wave by wave
- Dual stimulaitons for P-spot & perineum
- Customized patterns via the app
Hush 2 – Vibrating Butt Plug
- Adjustable & powerful auto vibrations
- Flared base to ensure safety
- Body-safe material; sleek & comfortable
- Customized patterns via the app
How Can I Harness My Anal Prowess? (Step-by-Step Guide)
We know that using a dildo for the first time may feel like venturing into unknown waters, so we’ve put together a detailed, hand-holding guide to help you through every step, especially if you’re new to anal play.
Prep Your Surroundings:
- Privacy and Comfort: Choose a quiet, private space that lets you stay at ease. We recommend your bedroom or a secluded spot at home where you truly feel comfortable. Dim the lights, light a scented candle, or put on some soothing tunes to make your atmosphere perfect.
- Hygiene: It’s important to be as hygienic as possible. Before you start, wash your hands thoroughly with water and (non-scented) soap. Also, clean your dildo according to its manufacturer’s instructions.
Get the Right Headspace:
- Relaxation: Start taking a few deep and slow breaths to calm down your mind and body. Spend a couple of minutes in silence just solely focusing on your breath and getting comfortable in your body.
- Visualization: Try to imagine the pleasurable sensations you’re about to experience. Picture your body positively responding to the insertion.
Never Enough Lube:
- Choosing the Right Lube: We suggest using a generous amount of water-based lube as it’s gentle on your skin and way easier to clean.
- Application: Apply the lube liberally on your anal area and coat the entire surface of your dildo.
Insertion Technique:
- Finding the Right Angle: Gently hold the dildo and slowly guide it into your anus at a slight angle, with an upward aim towards your stomach. With this angle, it would be easier to reach your prostate.
- Slow & Steady: Insert the toy gradually. If you feel any resistance, stop and add more lube. Please remember that there’s no need to rush!
- Pay Attention to Sensations: As you insert, focus on how your body feels. The first few moments may be strange and feel weird, but listen to your body’s signals and proceed only as far as feels comfortable.
Texture Matters:
- Ribbed vs Smooth Anal Toys: Another major factor that can have a huge impact on your pleasure is your toy’s texture. Ribbed toys tend to provide a more intense sensation than smooth toys. At Lovense, we suggest experimenting with both textured anal toys for men.
- Temperature Play: You can choose to use metal or glass anal dildos to experiment with heating or cooling anal sensations.
Explore and Adjust:
- Experimenting with Movements: Once the dildo is comfortably inserted, try gentle thrusting or slow rotations. Experiment with different depths, angles, and speeds to find what feels best for you.
- Utilize Vibration Settings: If your dildo includes vibration features, start with the lowest setting and gradually increase the intensity. Adjust the settings until you find a rhythm that builds your arousal.
- Varied Positions: Explore different positions such as lying on your side, sitting up with your knees drawn to your chest, or standing with support. Changing positions can shift the angle of stimulation and may reveal new sensations.
Get More Experience:
- For Beginners: Have a detailed roadmap with key milestones. For example, for your first session, experiment with only using your finger, for your second session, experiment with using a small male anal plug, for your third session, experiment with a remote-controlled prostate massager and so on.
- For Intermediate: Those that may have a bit more experience can anal train by experimenting with both size and girth of their toys.
Aftercare:
- Careful Removal: When you’re ready to finish, gently remove the dildo. Take your time to ensure that the process is smooth and comfortable.
- Cleaning: Immediately clean your toy with warm water and mild soap, following the manufacturer’s guidelines. Ensure it’s completely dry before storing it in a clean, safe place.
- Self-Care: Take a moment to relax post-session, maybe with a warm shower or some gentle stretching, allowing your body to return to its normal state.
Common Myths and Misconceptions About Male Anal Toys
We know that people have a ton to say about male anal dildos but we’re here to bust some myths!
Anal toys are only for gay men
Anal or prostate stimulation is about anatomy and preference, not sexual orientation. That misconception usually creates shame around buying the right toy, which is how people end up rushing into the wrong size or shape instead of starting with something simple, like a small silicone plug or a beginner-friendly curved prostate massager.
Pain is just part of anal play
Pain is a signal to stop, slow down, add more lubricant, or switch to a smaller toy. For most beginners, the better starting point is a slim silicone toy with a tapered tip, because comfort and control matter far more than pushing through discomfort.
Bigger anal toys are always better
Going too large too early is one of the easiest ways to make anal play feel tense, awkward, or unpleasant. A smaller plug, a narrow anal dildo, or a compact prostate massager usually gives a better introduction because it leaves room to learn what kind of pressure and depth actually feels good.
Any toy will work for anal play
For anal use, the toy needs to be made for anal use. PlannedParenthood.com specifically recommends body-safe, non-porous materials and an anal-safe flared base, so the smarter choice is a purpose-built silicone, glass, or stainless steel toy rather than improvising with something that was never designed for safe anal insertion.
All prostate toys feel more or less the same
They do not. A standard curved prostate massager, an adjustable dual-stimulation massager, and a toy with moving or more targeted contact can feel very different in practice, which is why shape matters as much as power. Adjustable designs are especially useful for people who need a more precise angle or a steadier fit.
High-tech anal toys are mostly gimmicks
Some are simple app-controlled toys, but newer models also include long-distance control, synced responses, and more interactive features. For solo use, a regular vibrating plug may be enough; for partner play or more customized control, an app-based or sync-enabled toy makes more sense.
Lube choice does not really matter
Lube changes both comfort and compatibility. Water-based lube works well with toys and cleans up easily, while silicone-based lube lasts longer for anal play, so the better approach is to match the lubricant to the toy material and the kind of session you want rather than treating all lubes as interchangeable.
Once a toy is washed, it is always fine to share
Cleaning matters, but shared toys still need more care than that. Using condoms on toys, changing them between partners, and choosing non-porous materials that clean thoroughly are all safer habits than assuming a quick rinse solves everything.
Male Anal Dildos FAQs
A male anal dildo is a sex toy specifically designed for anal stimulation, targeting the prostate to deliver intense, full-body orgasms.
Start with a smaller model, particularly if you’re a beginner. Look for a toy with a secure, flared base to ensure safety during use.
Yes, provided they are made from body-safe materials like medical-grade silicone or glass, and proper hygiene practices are followed.
This depends on personal preference; many users begin with short sessions and gradually increase usage as their body adapts to the stimulation.
This depends on personal preference; many users begin with short sessions and gradually increase usage as their body adapts to the stimulation.
Clean your toy with warm water and mild soap after each use, and sterilize it if possible. Store it in a clean, dry place away from contaminants.
Male Anal Dildos Final Thoughts
Not only can men experience the joys of using dildos, but male anal toys can also provide unique pleasure by directly stimulating the prostate, leading to full-body orgasms that have the potential to feel better than traditional stimulation.
At Lovense, we believe that anal stimulation is something that all men should experience at least once in their life! So what’re you waiting for? Embrace the journey and get started now!
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