10 Sexy Christmas Ideas – Get Hot While It’s Cold Outside

It’s cold outside and you might have some much-needed, extra time off. Why not take some of that time and dedicate it to making it a sexy Christmas?

Here are ten things that will help spark your imagination. And, bonus points, not all of them involve money! Because we know that this time of year can stretch the budget. Also, if you’re single, many of these can work too! It’s called sexual self-care and the holidays are fair game.

1. OPEN AN ADVENT CALENDAR


You name it and there’s probably an advent calendar about it – including sex toys and other adult products. The commercial ones are okay, and great if you want to both be surprised when opening it. But you can make one for your partner as well and customize each item to be something you know they will love.

However, don’t think you HAVE TO go the XXX route. There are wine and spirits, underwear, and other fun stuff that counts as adult content.

2. GIVE A HOT AND COLD MASSAGE


This one is pretty straightforward. Giving a massage is a wonderful way to not only build up some yummy sensual tension but also to build a connection. You learn a lot about your partner’s body. Make sure the room is warm and the lighting is soft. Use proper massage oil or a massage candle if you really want to impress.

If you don’t know how to go about a massage very well, just look up videos on YouTube. There are a ton of them and no excuses not to be at least okay at them. For an extra layer of fun (and if your partner is up for it) try some cooling oils or ice cubes for some mixed sensations. If it’s just you, a professional 30min aromatherapy massage can be a wonderful gift to yourself.

NOTE: All of these oils do NOT go near the genital area!

3. READ SENSUAL STORIES


Okay, okay you don’t want to read a book (or maybe you do). But there are plenty of audiobooks out there that you can listen to. Some of them even sync with sex toys!

One example is Audiodesires. Their voice acting is actually quite good. And their app is really well done – including things that are non-sexual like sleep meditation or relaxation. The sex scenes in many stories work with Lovense toys.

Check out the article here – it includes a 50% membership discount to Audiodesires.

4. EXPLORE SEX TOYS


Now could be the perfect time to buy a new sex toy for you (and even your partner) to play around with. Even better would be trying something maybe a smidge out of what you usually buy.

For example, if you normally get bullet vibrators, why not try a magic wand? Or if you’re curious about anal stuff, there are plenty of beginner butt plugs.

5. GIVE THE GIFT OF “CLOTHES”


No, not socks. Well … maybe socks if that’s your thing. The choices around sexy Christmas clothing is never-ending. You can have anything from tasteful to raunchy. And if you don’t want any of that you can just get a set of silky pajamas that can be worn any night. They’ll feel amazing!

Toss them on and find other pleasurable things to do … like take them off again 🙂

6. PLAY SEX GAMES


Adult board games, truth or dare, normal games turned naughty, sexy dice with words or sex positions, etc. Find something you both like and spend an evening giggling … or moaning. Need ideas? Check out this article.

If it’s just you this holiday season, but you’re feeling frisky, hop on Lovense Discord channel to see if anyone is up for some sex toys games!

7. EXPLORE YOUR SENSES


Partake in some delightful sensory deprivation and let the other senses go wild. All you need is a simple silky blindfold. Then work on things like touch, taste, smell, and sound. Think of lightly caressing the skin, scented candles or massage oil, strawberries, and the whisper of naughty words in your partner’s ear. So yummy.

If you’re stumped for creative things in the “touch” department, I would suggest wax play (or massage candles if you’ve never done waxplay before), light spanking, hot and cooling balm, nipple clamps, medical pinwheels, light biting/nibbling, etc.

8. HAVE A LUXURY BATH EVENING


It’s that time of year when department store aisles are drowning in bath baskets of every size, smell, and price imaginable (yes, for men too!). Or, if you need to save some bucks just get a single bath bomb or bath salts, a few candles, and a bottle of wine.

Set up a romantic bath evening for your partner – decking out the bathroom to be as sexy (and clean) as possible. You can also leave them alone (if they want) for some “me” time. Imagine the thrill if you leave them on their own with a brand-new waterproof sex toy to enjoy.

If you’re looking for affordable sex toys for men in this situation, something like a Tenga egg (disposable masturbation sleeve) is perfect.

9. ESCAPE FOR A NIGHT


Maybe you want to have a night out for just you and your partner – or partners, woohoo! Rent a hotel room with a big bathtub and an even bigger bed. No cleaning, cooking, or anything! Just you, your partner, and whatever fun you’ve stuffed your suitcase with.

10. HAVE AN ALL-OUT DATE NIGHT


If a hotel room isn’t a choice, then just have an evening out. But don’t slap on the same pair of sweatpants you’ve been clinging to the entire week (like me). Maybe take a few more steps of self-care as well as doll yourself up (gals and guys) then go out for a romantic evening of bonding.

How about you, dear reader? What other sexy Christmas ideas would you suggest? Share in the comments!

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