Today, we’re breaking down the Lovense Lover Set, a bundle that tries to bridge the gap between high-tech toys and classic sensory play. It leans towards “for beginners,” but I wanted to see if it actually delivers on that promise or if it’s just a collection of random extras.
In this review, we’re going deep on the build quality and real-world use of every item in the box, from the app-controlled vibrators to the physical restraints. There’s also some math to see if buying the set actually saves you money compared to picking up the pieces individually. Whether you’re a beginner looking for an easy entry point, a long-distance couple needing better ways to connect, or someone who should probably pass on this set entirely, this breakdown will help you figure out if it’s worth your cash.
Table of Contents
- Overview: What’s In The Lover Set?
- Who Is the Lovense Lover Set For?
- Unboxing and First Impressions
- Sensory and Bondage Accessories
- The Sex Tech
- Hygiene, Materials, and Care
- Set Value Analysis
- Final Thoughts on This Set
- Want More Reads?
Overview: What’s In The Lover Set?
The Lover collection has standard spicy accessories – the kind of setup where most things will look pretty familiar, even if you’ve never bought a set like this before. It’s a deliberate mix. Some pieces are there to slow things down and amp up the sensation. Others are all about tech and control. And one is a single-use item (maybe two or three uses if you take care of it).
You get a black and gold feather tickler, a simple silver-gray blindfold, and some basic cuffs connected with short chains. They get the job done for light fun, but definitely aren’t meant for heavy-duty stuff. Plus, there are three toys…
- Lovense Lush 4 (a wearable, hands-free G-spot vibrator)
- Gush 2 (an oscillating stroker)
- 1 Kraken sleeve (a disposable male masturbator)
Who Is the Lovense Lover Set For?
This set is really for the person who wants to try a little bit of everything without overcomplicating things. If you’re in a long-distance relationship and want to use the Lovense App to connect, or if you’re just a beginner curious about how app-controlled toys actually work, it’s an easy jumping-off point. It saves you the hassle of having to research and buy every little piece individually.
| Best for | Might want to pass |
|---|---|
| Couples curious about sex tech | People who already own similar Lovense toys |
| Long-distance partners who enjoy shared control | Anyone looking for heavy kink or advanced bondage gear |
| People exploring light restraint and sensory play | Users who want fully customizable restraint systems |
| Beginners looking for an easy entry point | Those who prefer to build their setup piece by piece |
| Shoppers looking for a ready-made gift set | Budget conscientious shoppers |
Unboxing and First Impressions
The set comes in the standard bright pink Lovense packaging. Inside, everything is organized into its own section with smaller boxes. They’ve added some silver icons on the packaging to help you identify which item is where, so you aren’t guessing which box holds which toy. The entire thing weighs 1.18kg (roughly 2.6 lbs)
The presentation is clean and organized, and the main box is actually solid enough to use for long-term storage. It’s probably a good idea to keep the smaller inner boxes too—specifically for the feather tickler—just to keep things from getting squashed or dusty between uses. Scanning the QR codes takes you to setup guides or play ideas, which is easier than keeping track of a paper manual.
If you already use the Lovense Remote app, the toys will sync up like any of their other gear. If you’re new to it, you’ll need to set up an account and pair the devices, which takes a few minutes of clicking around to get the hang of.
Note: You don’t actually need the app to get started. You can just use the physical buttons on the toys to turn them on and change settings. The app adds more customization and long-distance features, but if you just want to use them right out of the box, you can skip the tech setup for later.
Sensory and Bondage Accessories
Feather Tickler
The feather tickler is surprisingly decent. Usually, accessories in these sets feel like an afterthought, but this one has a gold-finish metal handle with some actual weight to it. A nice feature is that the handle unscrews into two pieces, making it easier to store without ruining the feathers. The feathers themselves work fine for light touch, though the trim on mine looked a little uneven in some spots—likely just a minor manufacturing booboo.
Blindfold
The blindfold is pretty standard. It’s soft, the elastic is covered in fabric so it doesn’t pull on your hair, and it stays in place without feeling tight. The only real downside is the large logo printed across the front, which feels a bit corporate for something used in the bedroom.
But, you can just flip it inside out to the plain gray side if the branding bothers you. When used with the tickler, it’s a simple way to try out sensory play
Bondage Cuffs
The wrist cuffs are probably the best part of the accessory kit. Instead of the thin, cheap metal you usually find in sets, the hardware here has some real heft and a smooth finish. The stitching is clean, and the inside is lined with a soft, suede-like material that’s comfortable against the skin. They use quick-release clips, which are a must for safety.
While there is branding on the cuffs too, the overall quality is good enough that they don’t feel like “disposable” beginner gear.
The Sex Tech
Lush 4
Lush 4 is a wearable, hands-free G-spot vibrator—basically what most people call a “love egg.” It’s made of standard body-safe silicone and is shaped to stay in place while you move around, whether you’re using it alone or with a partner.
- Up to 7,000 vibrations per minute
- Very low noise level, around 36 dB
- Rapid charging: about 5 minutes for about 1 hour of use
- Bluetooth connection with improved stability
- Programmable LED tail light
- Works with the Lovense app for remote control
- IPX7 waterproof for easy cleaning and shower or bath use
➡️Learn More Here: Lovense Lush 4 Review: Everything You Need to Know
Gush 2
Gush 2 is a vibrating and oscillating massager that you can use either hands-free or manually. If you want to go hands-free, it includes some adjustable bands to keep it in place, but it works just as well as a standard handheld stroker. The open side means it will fit more griths.
- Rated at up to 4,300 oscillations and vibrations per minute
- Quiet during use
- Charging time: about 75 minutes
- Battery life: up to 110 minutes of play
- IPX7 waterproof for easy cleaning and shower use
- Two silicone, adjustable straps included
➡️Learn More Here: Lovense Gush 2 Review: Is it Good for Edging, Stamina, and Penis Training?
Kraken Egg
The Kracken male stroker sleeve included in my set was the “Harpoon” texture. It’s worth noting that you only get one sleeve in this box, even though the full Kraken line has six different textures. I’m not sure if which texture you get is random or fixed, but either way, it’s more of a curiosity thing than a real issue.
- Body-safe TPE material
- Lightweight and compact, about 45 grams
- Flexible and stretchy with enough grip, even with plenty of lube
- Before stretch: about 2.04 × 2.44 inches (5.2 × 6.2 cm)
- Stretch length: up to 7.9 inches (20 cm)
- Stretch diameter: up to 3.9 inches (10 cm)
➡️Learn More Here: Lovense Kraken Review – Nautical Male Pleasure Pods
Hygiene, Materials, and Care
Keeping this set clean is mostly straightforward, though each piece needs a slightly different approach. The Lush 4 and Gush 2 are the easiest to handle—they’re waterproof silicone, so a quick wash with mild soap and water is all you need.
The accessories require a bit more care:
- Feather Tickler: Keep this away from lube and moisture. It’s best to store it in its original box so the feathers don’t get crushed or matted.
- Bondage Cuffs: Don’t submerge these. Just wipe them down and make sure the soft inner lining is completely dry before putting them away.
- Blindfold: There aren’t specific instructions, so hand-washing and air-drying is the safest bet to keep the fabric from wearing out.
- Kraken Sleeve: Since this is TPE (which is porous), you’ll need to be thorough. Flip it inside out to clean and dry the textures properly.
Set Value Analysis
Quick note on pricing: the non-toy prices used below are estimates. They’re based on the materials, build quality, and what similar items typically sell for at retail. These aren’t wholesale numbers or official accessory prices—just reasonable averages to give some context when comparing the value of the set.
- Lovense Lush 4: $129
- Lovense Gush 2: $119
- Kraken sleeve (six-pack price is $30): $5
- Feather tickler (metal, average retail): $15
- Blindfold: $10
- Bondage cuffs: $25
That puts the total if you bought everything separately at $303. The full set sells for $249, which puts the bundle about $54 cheaper than buying the items one by one at typical retail prices.
NOTE: Even if you argue the accessories could be found a little cheaper elsewhere, there’s still a clear gap between the bundle price and the combined value. The savings aren’t subtle, and they mostly come from getting two higher-ticket Lovense toys together in one box, with the accessories effectively rounding out the set rather than inflating the price.
Final Thoughts on This Set
The Lover Set is less about a specific routine and more about just having a few different options on hand. You can mix and match the pieces depending on whether you’re playing solo, together in person, or using the Lovense App from a distance.
The accessories don’t feel like the typical “filler” items you often find in these types of bundles. Usually, companies pad their kits with cheap extras or advanced gear that beginners don’t really need. This set stays pretty grounded, sticking to basic sensory tools and light restraints that actually make sense for someone just starting out. It’s a more focused collection that avoids the “junk drawer” feel of other sets by only including items that are actually approachable and easy to use.
I give it a solid 9/10 and worth it as a gift set for something like Valentine’s day, anniversaries, or long-distance relationship surprises.
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