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21 Sizzling and Kinky Role Play Ideas to Set Your Bedroom on Fire

by Robyn

It’s not just for couples wanting to spice up their sex lives – anyone with a heartbeat and sex drive has some kind of fantasy they wish they could act out but are too nervous to even ask.

The great news? 

Many fantasies are perfectly normal and are shared by millions of people. 

Here is a sample of what’s out there…

COMMON ROLE PLAY FANTASIES


BOSS AND EMPLOYEE How bad do you want that promotion? Everyone has some sort of suit or business attire in their closet, so it’s a great one for beginners.

DOCTOR AND NURSE – A thorough physical is in order. We want you to be healthy, after all. Toss on a sexy uniform, add a pair of gloves, and tell them to bend over.

DOM, SUB, SWITCH – It’s all about the thrill and/or release of power exchange and the respect and trust that are the cornerstones of BDSM. If you’re new to the game, all you need is something to tie your partner up with. Don’t forget your safety word.

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FIREFIGHTERS There are plenty of clichés like, “I’ll put out that fire” but honestly, who hasn’t drooled over one of those calendars?

HITCHHIKER Similar to the stranger fantasy, but you need a car. Pretend to pick them up on the side of the road. A skirt is recommended for easy navigation.

HOOKER OR CALL GIRL Dressing up in some slutty clothing and taking your partner back to your house for a few hours of … whatever you want. Don’t forget to pay them. 

MOVIE OR BOOK CHARACTER – The possibilities are endless. From getting caught by a Hogwarts teacher to being Mr. Darcy’s mistress.

PIRATES They either involve a “captive” who is noticed by the captain or the rugged swashbuckler who saves the maiden/man in distress. There is a mountain of nautical-themed romance books out there if you need help.

POLICE OFFICER – Whether the officer breaks out those handcuffs or the criminal overpowers them and uses his own Billy Club, anything goes. There is also the variation of prison guard and inmate.

PORN STAR It can be anything from reenacting your favorite naughty movie or just filming your own. Location possibilities are endless.

REPAIR PERSON Someone comes over to fix that squeaky bed. Another good one for beginners.

SECRET AGENT 007 or Nikita, tailored suits and form-fitting black attire. World domination plans and steamy interludes. What’s not to like?

CELEBRITY AND FAN– That starlight beauty or handsome film god finally takes notice of you.

SERVANT, MAID, BUTLER They’re supposed to be cleaning, but damn, they’re just so dirty. Plus, costumes are super easy to get.

ANIMAL HYBRID – You might cringe, but with all the werewolf, vampire, and monster media out there, you can’t tell me there aren’t people who wouldn’t go crazy over a full moon and great romp in the forest. Or go the super cute route with fuzzy ears. Maybe an animal tail that doubles as a butt plug.

FAIRY TALE CHARACTER Nearly every man dreams of banging one of the Disney princesses/princes, hell maybe both at the same time. Pick anything from Brothers Grimm, or Hans Christian Anderson and go crazy.

You can also check out J.Scott Campbell‘s fairytale imagery more ideas. 

SPORTS STAR AND FAN Similar to the Hollywood star one. Just exchange your Oscar’s attire for a sport’s jersey. There is also another variation of Rock Star and Groupie.

STRANGERS AT A BAR – You lock eyes over your happy hour cocktail. The attraction is enough to make you want to skip to the hotel and go to the nearest bathroom, closet, or empty room.

STRIPPER If you’re secure in your sultry dancing skills, make sure your partner has a fist full of bills to put in that g-string.

SUPERHERO It might have been Superman at some point, but Chris Hemsworth made Thor sexy AF. Or you could go Spiderman for flexibility and the desire for younger men/women.

TEACHER AND STUDENT – Probably in the top 10 of most fantasies (for both men and women) “I need straight As to get that scholarship. Please, I’ll do anything.” *unzips pants.

FANTASY TO REALITY


For most people, the desire stays in their heads – mostly because they are too nervous or embarrassed to even broach the subject with their significant other.

Maybe it’s because your partner seems very vanilla, and anything past the missionary with dimmed lights will send them running for the hills. Or perhaps you think it’s just too “weird”.

Newsflash … everyone feels like that.

We all have a deep seeded fear of being ridiculed and rejected. Also, not everyone has established that line of communication early on in their relationships.

What’s the best thing you can do?

TAKE THINGS SLOWLY It all comes down to being patient, waiting for the right moment, and dropping a hint of some sort (if you think your S.O. needs the light touch). It also doesn’t need to be one, deciding conversation. 

“NO” ISN’T THE END OF THE WORLD – Sometimes, your partner won’t be into trying it. If so, there might be another version or fantasy they can get into.

Communication and compromise are key. 

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8 comments

Veronica James 07/19/2020 - 12:00 am

My man and I play the dirty lawyer and the juvenile delinquent client, he wants more than his bill paid to keep her out of trouble.

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ahornygirl 06/18/2020 - 12:00 am

i think the made one is good cause i dont have a maid costume but i have sexy cleaningclothes

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John Steele 03/08/2020 - 12:00 am

I really love the secret agent idea. One can play as the villain, plotting world domination. Maybe add some bondage with the captured agent tied to a “doomsday device”. Set a countdown and improvise from there.

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Brown one 01/13/2020 - 12:00 am

I bought rope and tied up my wife

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Justagirl 09/08/2019 - 12:00 am

For teacher student, I like “you’ve been a bad girl/boy and need to be taught a lesson.”

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Im3andneedawee.. 01/01/2020 - 12:00 am

No im 3

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Skippy 05/23/2019 - 12:00 am

Nice website good advice

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Chuff Mcafny 04/06/2019 - 12:00 am

sexy

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