{"id":8860,"date":"2022-12-09T15:21:35","date_gmt":"2022-12-09T15:21:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/?p=8860"},"modified":"2026-03-04T08:07:29","modified_gmt":"2026-03-04T08:07:29","slug":"having-a-threesome","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/sex-passion\/having-a-threesome","title":{"rendered":"Having a Threesome with Just Two People \u2026 And Sex Toys\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Having a Threesome with a Sex Toy: <\/strong>When it comes to sexual fantasies, having a threesome is always in the top 5 for the general public. The idea of having an extra set of \u2026 whatever \u2026 can be very titillating. However\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Threesomes aren\u2019t easy things to navigate \u2013 and I\u2019m not talking about simply finding someone you click with and can trust (which is a whole other can of worms). There are deep caverns of insecurities and tumultuous rivers of other emotions that most people deal with at the mere mention of the idea of another person touching their partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And while having a threesome might sound like a dream, it might be something that could severely damage a relationship if it\u2019s not in a very secure, healthy place. But thankfully, there\u2019s a solution \u2013 sex toys! This article will also look at other important points such as how to talk to your partner and how to deal with other issues that might pop up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"simpletoc-title\">Table of Contents<\/h2>\n<ul class=\"simpletoc-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#using-sex-toys-when-having-a-threesome\">Using Sex Toys When Having a &#8220;Threesome&#8221;<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#sex-toy-recap\">Sex Toy Recap:<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#potential-issues-with-having-a-threesome-with-a-sex-toy\">Potential Issues with Having a Threesome with a Sex Toy<\/a>\n\n\n<\/li>\n\n<\/li>\n\n<li><a href=\"#having-a-threesome-how-to-do-it-tips-for-setting-it-up\">Having a Threesome \u2013 How to Do It (Tips for Setting It Up)<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#safety-and-consent\">Safety and Consent<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#cleaning-up-and-other-useful-tips\">Cleaning Up and Other Useful Tips<\/a>\n\n\n<\/li>\n\n<\/li>\n\n<li><a href=\"#final-thoughts-on-having-a-threesome\">Final Thoughts on Having a Threesome<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#want-more-reads\">Want More Reads?<\/a>\n<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"using-sex-toys-when-having-a-threesome\"><strong>Using Sex Toys When Having a &#8220;Threesome&#8221;<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With all the options out there, there are mountains of sex toy options that will give you the \u201cillusion\u201d of another person \u2013 or at least the pleasure of one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/1zgwx2\">Sex machines<\/a><\/strong> allow one person to be penetrated while having oral sex with their partner. Or you can indulge in some double penetration. The upside is that these machines are super-powerful and don\u2019t go kaput like normal sex toys. The downside is that any decent one isn\u2019t going to be cheap.\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Bonus \u2013 <\/strong>Some sex machines have attachments that let you affix a masturbator to the end (such as a Fleshlight).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Dildos<\/strong> can give the same pleasure as a sex machine, but you\u2019ll have to have at least one hand free to work the toy. They will be much cheaper and perhaps let your partner feel more comfortable when it comes to things like double penetration (especially if they\u2019ve never done it before).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Vibrators<\/strong> are a step up from dildos because they \u2026 well \u2026 vibrate! But like dildos, if you can find a<strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/xhly8b\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">thrusting one with a suction cup<\/a><\/strong>, you can attach the toy to a non-porous wall or floor to leave your hands free for other things.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/image-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8862\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/xhly8b\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Gravity<\/a> by Lovense &#8211; Thrusting Dildo with suction cup<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Blindfolds <\/strong>are an excellent addition because they can help your imagination run wild in thinking there is a third person there.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Anal Toys <\/strong>can work too (like butt plugs or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/store\/prostate-massagers\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>prostate massagers<\/strong><\/a>), but just make sure they have a flared base to nothing slips in and gets lost up there.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/x17ns4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Vibrating Nipple Clamps <\/a>will let you <\/strong>feel like someone is playing with your breasts while your partner works magic in other areas.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>And, if you have A LOT of money, you could even get a <strong>sex doll!<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>So, you see how simply by adding a sex toy to please another part of the body, you can bridge that fantasy gap without having to invite another warm body into the bedroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, there are toy brands that have gone high-tech and have apps that will allow someone to control the toy from far away or Bluetooth if they nearby. If you and your lover are okay with the idea of giving control of a sex toy to someone (and having them somewhere else) that can be a sexy option as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>IDEA<\/strong> \u2013 Have some porn running in the background so it sounds like another person is there. Could be fun for some people.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"sex-toy-recap\">Sex Toy Recap:<\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><thead><tr><th>Toy type<\/th><th>How it creates the \u201cthreesome\u201d feeling<\/th><th>Tips for use<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/1zgwx2\">Sex machines<\/a><\/strong><\/td><td>Provide thrusting penetration while your partner focuses on oral or manual play, simulating multiple partners.<\/td><td>Position near the bed for easy switching; start on lower speeds before ramping up.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/xhly8b\">Dildos<\/a><\/strong><\/td><td>Allow one partner to \u201cdouble up\u201d on penetration while still being hands-on.<\/td><td>Use with plenty of lube; suction-cup dildos free up hands for other stimulation.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/ybawz2\">Vibrators<\/a><\/strong><\/td><td>Add extra stimulation so it feels like another set of hands is in the room.<\/td><td>Choose versatile models (wand or bullet) to target multiple body parts.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/1cfpos\">Anal toys<\/a><\/strong><\/td><td>Simulate the sensation of double penetration or a third person\u2019s focus.<\/td><td>Always choose toys with a flared base; start with smaller sizes for comfort.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>Blindfolds<\/strong><\/td><td>Heighten imagination and create the illusion of an unseen third partner.<\/td><td>Pair with whispered roleplay or background audio (like porn) for immersion.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/x17ns4\">Nipple toys (clamps, vibrators)<\/a><\/strong><\/td><td>Add the sensation of someone else stimulating your chest while your partner focuses elsewhere.<\/td><td>Adjustable pressure and vibration let you customize intensity.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>Sex dolls or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/5cndia\">strokers<\/a><\/strong><\/td><td>Offer the physical presence of a third body or provide extra stimulation to one partner.<\/td><td>High investment; best for couples comfortable experimenting with larger props.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/joip26\">App-controlled toys<\/a><\/strong><\/td><td>Bring a remote \u201cthird\u201d into the mix, even from afar.<\/td><td>Let your partner hand over control for a surprise, or invite a trusted long-distance partner virtually.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"potential-issues-with-having-a-threesome-with-a-sex-toy\"><strong>Potential Issues with Having a Threesome with a Sex Toy<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/image-4-1024x537.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8863\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Sex toy connected to smartphone for long-distance control<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"insecurity-and-jealousy\">Insecurity and Jealousy<\/h3>\n\n\n<p>The biggest issue you might face is having a lover who finds sex toys threatening (sorry lads, but it\u2019s usually the guys). Some partners feel like a \u201cbuzzy friend\u201d between the sheets diminishes their worth or makes them less desirable. Others fear their partner will end up liking the toy more than them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remind them that a toy is just that \u2014 a device. You can\u2019t form an emotional attachment to bits of silicone or steel. (It\u2019s no different than asking if someone could fall in love with their coffee maker.) Talk openly, try toys in small steps, and keep checking in about what feels good.<\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"budget-concerns\">Budget Concerns<\/h3>\n\n\n<p>Another hurdle is cost. Toys can be anywhere from budget-friendly to very expensive. Look for body-safe materials, warranties, and reviews before buying. If there\u2019s a high-end toy you really want, wait for sales or holidays \u2014 Lovense often runs promotions.<\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"timing-and-integration\">Timing and Integration<\/h3>\n\n\n<p>Even with the right toys, figuring out when and how to introduce them can be awkward. Don\u2019t rush. Start with one toy, take it slow, and talk about how it felt after. Gentle, supportive communication encourages your partner to keep experimenting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"having-a-threesome-how-to-do-it-tips-for-setting-it-up\">Having a Threesome \u2013 How to Do It (Tips for Setting It Up)<\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Talk first, play later<\/strong> \u2013 Discuss boundaries, fantasies, and safe words before trying anything new. Knowing what\u2019s off-limits builds trust.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Start small<\/strong> \u2013 Introduce one toy at a time so nobody feels overwhelmed. Build up gradually.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Set the mood<\/strong> \u2013 Create the right atmosphere with lighting, music, or even porn in the background to enhance the illusion of a third presence.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Balance attention<\/strong> \u2013 Make sure both partners get equal focus so no one feels left out. Switch roles and share control of the toys.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Use safe words and check-ins<\/strong> \u2013 Agree on signals to pause or stop if something feels uncomfortable.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Stay flexible<\/strong> \u2013 If something doesn\u2019t work, laugh it off and try something else. The goal is connection and fun, not perfection.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"safety-and-consent\">Safety and Consent<\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No matter how adventurous your play gets, consent and safety should always be the foundation. Threesomes \u2014 even toy-based ones \u2014 work best when both partners feel respected, supported, and secure. Before you start experimenting, make sure to cover these essentials:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Enthusiastic consent<\/strong> \u2013 Both partners should clearly agree to try it. If anyone feels pressured, pause the idea and revisit it later.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Set boundaries in advance<\/strong> \u2013 Decide what\u2019s on the table and what\u2019s off-limits. Having this clarity avoids misunderstandings mid-play.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Check in often<\/strong> \u2013 Use quick verbal cues or even safe words to keep things comfortable. A simple \u201cyes,\u201d \u201cpause,\u201d or \u201cno\u201d keeps communication clear.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Protect your body<\/strong> \u2013 Use condoms or toy covers when sharing toys, and stick to body-safe materials like medical-grade silicone or stainless steel.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Keep toys clean<\/strong> \u2013 Wash toys before and after use, and follow the manufacturer\u2019s care instructions.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Go at your own pace<\/strong> \u2013 There\u2019s no rush. If something feels overwhelming, slow down or try a simpler version first.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Respect aftercare<\/strong> \u2013 Talk, cuddle, or relax together afterward. Processing the experience helps both partners feel valued and connected.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>By treating safety and consent as non-negotiable, you\u2019ll turn the fantasy into something that builds trust rather than creates stress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"cleaning-up-and-other-useful-tips\">Cleaning Up and Other Useful Tips<\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A great threesome experience isn\u2019t just about what happens during play \u2014 the before and after matter just as much. Here are some practical tips to make things smoother:<\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"before-play\">Before Play<\/h3>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Prep your toys<\/strong> \u2013 Make sure everything is charged, batteries are ready, and attachments are clean. Nothing kills the mood like stopping to search for a charger.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Stock the essentials<\/strong> \u2013 Have plenty of lube (preferably water-based), towels, and wipes within arm\u2019s reach.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Set the space<\/strong> \u2013 Adjust lighting, change sheets, and make the room comfortable so you can focus on pleasure, not distractions.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"during-play\">During Play<\/h3>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Keep towels nearby<\/strong> \u2013 A quick grab prevents spills from interrupting the flow.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Stay hydrated<\/strong> \u2013 A glass of water at the bedside helps keep energy up.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Switch things up<\/strong> \u2013 Rotate positions and toy use to keep both partners equally engaged.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"after-play\">After Play<\/h3>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Clean toys right away<\/strong> \u2013 Use warm water and toy-safe soap or a toy cleaner. Leaving them unwashed can cause bacteria buildup.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Change bedding<\/strong> \u2013 Fresh sheets signal a reset and keep things hygienic.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Do aftercare<\/strong> \u2013 Whether it\u2019s cuddling, a snack, or just talking through the experience, aftercare keeps intimacy strong.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Check in emotionally<\/strong> \u2013 Ask your partner how they felt, what they enjoyed, and what they\u2019d like to try differently next time.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>These little steps ensure the experience feels intentional, safe, and enjoyable from start to finish \u2014 not just in the heat of the moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"final-thoughts-on-having-a-threesome\"><strong>Final Thoughts on Having a Threesome<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember, don\u2019t skimp on the foreplay and have plenty of lube on hand (water-based). With all of this, you\u2019ll be able to give that threesome itch a really good scratch without having to invite someone over!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How about you dear readers? Any other suggestions you want to share to make a threesome with only two people a raging success?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"want-more-reads\">Want More Reads?<\/h2>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/sex-toys\/mmf-bi-threesome-guide\">Spice Up Your MMF Bi Threesome: Recommended Sex Toys &amp; Tricks<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/sex-tips\/threesome-essential-tips-guide\">Triple the Fun: Unveiling the Secrets to a Successful Threesome<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/sex-toys\/best-app-controlled-strokers\">Best App-Controlled Strokers: Upgrade Your OS (Orgasm System)<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Having a Threesome with a Sex Toy: When it comes to sexual fantasies, having a threesome is always in the top 5 for the general&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":27231,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[441,445,7],"tags":[21,6,2],"class_list":["post-8860","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-masturbation","category-mutual-masturbation","category-sex-passion","tag-guide","tag-sex","tag-sex-toys"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Having a Threesome with Just Two People \u2026 And Sex Toys\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Learn the tricks and tips of having a threesome but without the extra person. 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