{"id":649,"date":"2020-11-18T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-11-18T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.lovenselife.com\/uncategorized\/common-fantasy-requests"},"modified":"2020-11-18T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2020-11-18T00:00:00","slug":"common-fantasy-requests","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/sex-passion\/common-fantasy-requests","title":{"rendered":"Sex Workers Reveal 6 of The Most Common Fantasy Requests"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Huffington Post, of all places, decided to reach out to several sex workers and get their two cents on what us secret pervs most want \u2013 and I say \u201cpervs\u201d with love, from one freaky beast to another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>CUCKOLDING&nbsp; <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One escort shared how many men want to watch her have sex with another man. They\u2019re not her boyfriend and she isn\u2019t the client\u2019s girl, but the fantasy is still there. The other counterpart is watching two women together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>THREESOMES<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Take the humiliation away and have three bodies getting their groove on. The sex workers say it\u2019s a mix of single and married or people in a relationship. It\u2019s one of the more grab-bag requests.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>SISSIFICATION<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This one doesn&#8217;t really surprise me. Women can embrace their masculine energy in private or public far easier than men can seek out their feminine flow. There\u2019s a lot of locked-in thinking and expectations about what \u201cmakes a man\u201d so these ladies often find a staggering number of requests around forced feminization.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s also the humiliation and degradation aspect. However, when someone is consensually \u201cforced\u201d they can abandon any guilt of partaking \u2026 because they \u201cdidn&#8217;t have a choice.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Speaking of forced\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>FORCED BI<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI got a lot of requests from men for scenes where they would be \u2018forced\u2019 to give oral sex to another man while I directed and watched,\u201d one said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI think part of the eroticism is in the forbidden nature of the fantasy for men, who are often pushed into hyper-masculine toxic ideals, but often they hadn\u2019t even considered they could experience this in a way that was affirming.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>ROLE PLAY<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If we stay along this same vein it shouldn&#8217;t be surprising that most role play scenes involve the woman being in an authoritative position \u2013 like teachers, bosses, doctors. There are also men trying to work out \u201cunresolved tension or trauma\u201d with a similar figure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>BLACKMAIL<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even I lost track of the number of FinDommes and other style Dommes complain and refuse blackmail fantasies. The amount was staggering AND on a daily basis. The women that do agree say that many men love the feeling of being outsmarted and extorted. Keep in mind, though, that no real blackmail takes place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-white-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-background-color has-text-color has-background\">Which of these would you want to try? 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