{"id":439,"date":"2019-07-19T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-07-19T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.lovenselife.com\/uncategorized\/sissy-training"},"modified":"2026-02-26T09:21:38","modified_gmt":"2026-02-26T09:21:38","slug":"sissy-training","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/kink-bdsm\/sissy-training","title":{"rendered":"Sissy Training 101 – Basic Concepts for Beginners"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

What is sissy training?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Simply put, it\u2019s exercises, homework, or advice that helps someone interested in sissification<\/strong> (sometimes known as forced feminization or hyper-feminization \u2013 although they can be considered their own subgroups) to explore their kink<\/strong> and find what style and depth they can blossom within.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The problem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most of the \u201ctraining programs\u201d out there are those cheap-looking self-published books, poorly made websites, Youtube \u201chypno\u201d videoes, or porn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, here\u2019s a FREE overview to help steer you in the right direction. (I will also be writing as if addressing someone who\u2019s interested in being a sissy, but Dommes can also benefit from the information).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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1. DECIDE ON DESIRES<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\"\"Men want to be sissified for various reasons \u2013 the love of the clothing, associated sexual acts, simple arousal, domination, humiliation, chastity play, control, servitude, etc. (or a combination). This step, in my opinion, is the most important. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It might come easily to some while being very difficult for others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why shouldn\u2019t you rush this part?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, if the need to be sissified comes from the desire to have the fetish fulfilled only for the man\/sissy, it will be a very different approach<\/strong> than if someone wanted to partake because they wanted to do it in an environment of servitude. It can also be non-sexual, and simply for the thrill of dressing up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s no right or wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s all personal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But when a second<\/em> person is involved (or more), you must be very honest<\/em> about what you want, need, expect, and are worried about. <\/strong>There needs to be compatibility in order for everyone to enjoy themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The same goes for paying a professional Domme to fulfill your fantasies. Be honest. You might get some rejections (don\u2019t take them personally) but eventually, you\u2019ll find someone that is happy to work with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once you\u2019ve learned what your inner voice is whispering, you (and\/or your partner) can design a training program with homework, exercises, tests, etc. that best fit your goals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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2. PRACTICE APPEARANCE<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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MAKEUP<\/strong> \u2013 Using videos, books, classes, or friend\u2019s help to be better at putting on makeup. It\u2019s better to take it in small, manageable stages (instead of trying to perfect an entire face at once).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

EXAMPLE:<\/strong> <\/span>Practice properly applying lipstick.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

CLOTHING<\/strong> & ACCESSORIES<\/strong> \u2013 There are many styles, such as princess, maid, slutty schoolgirl, sultry secretary trashy whore, innocent virgin, various cosplay (from TV or movies). Besides clothing, there\u2019s underwear, bras, jewelry, wigs, shoes, (and more) you can experiment with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

EXAMPLE:<\/strong> <\/span>Sending your sissy out shopping to buy their own feminine clothing can be a humiliating and arousing experience. Also, if you\u2019re new to the scene, wearing a simple pair of women\u2019s panties is an excellent start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Want even more fun during sissy play? Check out Lovense hands-free male sex toys.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n