{"id":362,"date":"2018-12-19T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2018-12-19T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.lovenselife.com\/uncategorized\/new-sex-positions-to-try"},"modified":"2018-12-19T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2018-12-19T00:00:00","slug":"new-sex-positions-to-try","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/sex-passion\/new-sex-positions-to-try","title":{"rendered":"12 New Sex Positions to Try in The New Year (That Won’t Kill You)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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A new year is a time for new things \u2013 which can include sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whether it\u2019s bringing the spark back to a stale bedroom or trying something different for shits and giggles, there are literally hundreds of new sex positions to choose from.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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While things like the \u201chelicopter\u201d might bring you bragging rights, for most people, it will probably result in a trip to the chiropractor or hospital. So, here are some more gentle (but still fun) options for you to experiment with \u2013 one new one for each month of the year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Enjoy!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

SIDE NOTE:<\/strong><\/span> Rather than saying \u201cman\/woman\u201d for the logistics of each position, I\u2019m going to say the \u201cgiver\/receiver\u201d. We don\u2019t exclude same-sex couples here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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1. THE CLIT MISSION<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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WHAT: <\/strong>Also known as the Coital Alignment Technique or \u201cCAT\u201d<\/strong>. There are long-ass paragraphs explaining each step to each movement. Honestly, the entire thing ends up reading like a pretty bland medical essay, so here\u2019s the basic rub\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOW:<\/strong> Start in a basic missionary, but the Giver leans upward and rocks back and forth instead of thrusting up and down. If you still don\u2019t understand what\u2019s going on, just remember, you\u2019re using your pelvis to maintain the back-and-forth contact with the Receiver\u2019s clit<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHY:<\/strong> Most women can\u2019t reach orgasm with internal stimulation \u2013 they need clitoral attention. This way, you both share in the pleasure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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2. <\/strong><\/span>THE<\/span><\/strong> \u201cT\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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WHAT: <\/strong>Sometimes called \u201cAfternoon Delight\u201d (although it sounds like a kind of tea brand).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOW:<\/strong> The Giver lays on their side. The Receiver lays on their back at a 90-degree angle, legs draped over their partner\u2019s body \u2013 essentially creating a T shape.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHY:<\/strong> It\u2019s great if you have little to energy but are still randy or you want to play for a long time. It\u2019s also great if you want to experiment with anal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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3. GIRL ON TOP<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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HUH?  <\/strong>Okay, there are so many variants of this position that to name all the aliases would get confusing. There are also different<\/strong> names if the \u201cwoman\u201d is on top sitting straight vs bending forwards vs turned around. Jeez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOW:<\/strong> Let\u2019s keep things simple. The Giver lays on their back, phallus ready. The Receiver sits astride, and, if your joints can take it, lean back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHY:<\/strong> You\u2019ll have better access to play with sex toys, clit stimulation, or different sensations while thrusting. Great if one partner has more energy than the other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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4. THE GALLEY<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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HUH? <\/strong>Sort of a Reverse Cowgirl idea, but with a few tweaks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOW?<\/strong> The Giver sits with legs outstretched (putting weight on either both hands or one, if you want something free to fondle with). Receiver sits on top but facing away. The tweaks? The Receiver leans forward into what\u2019s pretty much the bottom part of a doggy style.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHY?<\/strong> Better control for the top participate. Also good if one person has more energy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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5. THE SORT OF COWBOY<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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HUH?:<\/strong> The name is irrelevant, I just made it up (and the original title \u201cthe cross\u201d brought up SO many different positions).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOW:<\/strong> It\u2019s easier just to look at a picture\u2026 BUT, take notice of the leg that\u2019s tucked up and the near \u201cscissor\u201d position the couple is in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHY:<\/strong> The tucked leg allows the Giver to hold on and have better control of the thrusting. The scissoring is good if the Receiver has flexibility issues, especially around the hips.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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6. THE BANDOLEER<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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GUH? <\/strong>One of the handful of positions that uses the same name across any book or article \u2026 or you end up with military hardware in your search results. A multi-tasking position that\u2019s definitely worth a try.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOW:<\/strong> Receiver on their back, legs tucked into their chest (or as close as possible). Giver gets on their knees, puts Receiver\u2019s feet in his\/her chest, and penetrates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHY:<\/strong> Both parties have ample control over speed and thrusting. Great for G-spot targeting or those with shorter penises or dildo strap-ons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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7. THE GLOWING JUNIPER<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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WHAT?<\/strong> Another Kama Sutra name that makes no sense. But I do dig this position even though it requires some maneuvering to get into it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOW:<\/strong> Giver sits, legs extended. Receiver lays on their back, legs apart, knees bent, and the Receiver between his\/her legs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHY:<\/strong> A relaxing position that leaves the Receiver\u2019s hands (and mouth) free to do anything and everything \u2013 including wrapping their arms around the Giver\u2019s hips, lifting, and engaging in some fantastic penetration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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8. THE SPHINX<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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WHAT:<\/strong> Think doggy style but with a pinch of scissoring and a tad more bending. It can be as simple or as complicated as you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOW:<\/strong> Version one is like doggy style, but the tweak is the Giver only puts one knee between the Receiver\u2019s legs (instead of both in between or outside). Version tow, the Receiver puts themselves into a frog or \u201cSphinx\u201d crouch. The Giver can instead lean forward until they are nearly laying down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHY:<\/strong> Great for deep penetration. But the Giver will get tired faster than other positions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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9. THE COLUMN<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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WHAT:<\/strong> You don\u2019t have to spend all your sexy tie laying down. Get freaky while standing up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOW:<\/strong> Both parties stand up, Giver facing away from the Receiver, who wrapped their arms around their partner and penetrates from behind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHY:<\/strong> Different sensations mixed with the intimacy of an embrace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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10. THE PROPOSAL<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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WHAT:<\/strong> This is one naming convention I can get behind because it actually tells you how to do it. The one catch is this position works best if both people are relatively the same height.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOW:<\/strong> Both parties get on one knee but mirroring each other (so if the Giver is down on their right knee, the Receiver is on their left). Maneuver into penetration and enjoy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHY:<\/strong> Just to try something new.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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11. THE RIGHT ANGLE<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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WHAT:<\/strong> Time to make use of your kitchen table or similarly tall and flat surfaces.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOW:<\/strong> Receiver lays on an (e.g.) table with their butt near the edge. Giver gets in between the Receiver\u2019s legs and penetrates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHY:<\/strong> Intense pleasure possibilities. Hands are free for other stimulation. If the Giver has knee issues, standing can sometimes be easier on their legs. Also, this position is great if the Receiver is a woman and she can squeeze her Kegel muscles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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12. THE AMAZON<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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WHAT:<\/strong> Make use of more furniture in your home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOW:<\/strong> Find a stool or. The Giver sits, and the Receiver sits on the erection or dildo while facing their partner. BUT, you\u2019ll need something the right height \u2013 enough that the person on top can plant their feet firmly on the floor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHY:<\/strong> Gives you a fantastic workout and facing your lover is always intimate (aka lots of kissing).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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