{"id":358,"date":"2018-12-07T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2018-12-07T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.lovenselife.com\/uncategorized\/massage-oils"},"modified":"2018-12-07T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2018-12-07T00:00:00","slug":"massage-oils","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/sex-passion\/massage-oils","title":{"rendered":"Massage Oils 101 \u2013 Learn the Basics"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Whether you\u2019re aiming for a happy ending or just a relaxing experience, choosing the right massage oil will be the difference between a smooth, enjoyable event or something that leaves you sticky and irritated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here is a brief, but useful guide to get you started\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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DIY OILS<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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This is honestly the best route for any<\/strong> massage (erotic, sensual, or otherwise).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First, you\u2019ll need essential oils<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They come in small bottles and are concentrated oils of whatever plant they\u2019ve been extracted from, e.g. rose, lavender, jasmine etc. and are found in any health food store (and sometimes pharmacies or large supermarkets). Each plant will have different benefits, or you can just choose one you like the smell of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Look here for a detailed article on essential oils<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

20 Essential Oils for Sex – Natural Ways to Boost Your Libido<\/a><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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HOWEVER \u2013 don\u2019t confuse these with \u201cessential essences<\/strong>\u201d which are just watered-down versions of the pure oil and mixed with alcohol (often cheaper to produce).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Second, you\u2019ll need a \u201ccarrier oil<\/strong>\u201d \u2013 Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Essential oils are VERY concentrated<\/strong> and will usually cause irritation if put directly on the skin. Hence the need to dilute them in a neutral<\/em> oil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

These will do fine\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

SWEET ALMOND<\/span> <\/strong>\u2013 Most widely used in massage therapy. Light and faster to absorb into the skin (but still long lasting enough). Mostly non-allergenic, but those with a nut allergy should do a spot test or just avoid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

APRICOT KERNEL<\/span> <\/strong>\u2013 Similar to sweet almond, but slightly more expensive due to its higher levels of vitamin E and longer shelf life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

JOJOBA <\/span>\u2013 <\/strong>Antibacterial, antifungal properties and a long shelf life. Light and non-greasy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

COCONUT <\/span>\u2013 <\/strong>Make sure it\u2019s fractionated. Affordable and won\u2019t stain your sheets. However, fractionated doesn\u2019t have as good of a glide as other oils.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

GRAPESEED<\/span> \u2013 <\/strong>Another great option, but since it\u2019s extracted from grape seeds with solvents, some uber-natural people might not like it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

OLIVE <\/strong><\/span>\u2013 Can be used for massage, but stickier and heavier than other oils.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are MANY more oils out there, but these are the most common.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can also blend different carrier oils together to get the consistency you like. For example, if you love the feel of avocado oil, but don\u2019t like the heaviness, you can cut it with a lighter oil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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COMMERCIAL OILS<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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These are the things you find in your local sex shop or online. They\u2019re labeled with thigs like \u201cKama Sutra\u201d or \u201cNaughty\u201d etc. I tend to avoid these because they\u2019re simply more expensive versions that use the same ingredients you would in DIY anyway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

BUT,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe you just don\u2019t feel like playing chemist, or you want something you\u2019re not confident in making yourself. For example\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

EDIBLE OILS<\/strong><\/span> \u2013 massage oils you can lick off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WARMING<\/strong> <\/span>\u2013 containing ingredients that either warm on their own or with contact\/breath.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

COOLING<\/strong> <\/span>\u2013 Tingly sensations, like you would with peppermint or menthol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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LOTIONS, CREAMS, AND BUTTERS<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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These aren\u2019t ideal for massages because they absorb into the skin quickly. You can, however, use them for small areas like the hands or the feet. Some people also like to mix them with a carrier and essential oils. Shea butter is a great option.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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SAFETY TIPS<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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With ANY product that goes on the skin, it\u2019s important to do a spot test first<\/strong> (to make sure you or your partner doesn\u2019t have a reaction). This is especially vital if you\u2019re using essential oils or have a nut allergy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Never get oils near female genitals. The membrane is delicate and can get irritated REALLY easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Also, if you want more helpful articles, you might like these\u2026<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n