{"id":309,"date":"2018-07-19T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2018-07-19T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.lovenselife.com\/uncategorized\/male-orgasm"},"modified":"2026-03-04T07:33:36","modified_gmt":"2026-03-04T07:33:36","slug":"male-orgasm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/sex-passion\/male-orgasm","title":{"rendered":"6 Kinds of Male Orgasms – Learn the Basics of Boy’s Big O"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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I bet you also came here because you just can’t see how there are SIX different ways for guys to get off. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, surprise!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But, we won’t just be looking at this. You’ll also learn some interesting and surprising information about the male orgasm. Let’s dive in…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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YOUR DOC & SHRINK DON\u2019T ALWAYS AGREE<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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You would think something as common as an orgasm would have a somewhat standard definition, however, it\u2019s surprising varied \u2013 especially across different research circles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Medical professionals and mental health professionals sometimes have <\/strong>DIFFERENT<\/strong> opinions on the definition<\/strong> \u2013 one looks at the physiological changes while the other looks at the mental and cognitive changes. So, if you ask your therapist, they\u2019re going to say it\u2019s in your head. If you ask your doctor, they\u2019re going to say it\u2019s in your crotch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It might sound strange, but remember, even as recently as the 1970s, doctors were adamant that women did not experience any form of climax, and pleasure was solely the domain of men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thankfully, enough time has passed that people are starting<\/em> to look at the brain and body together. Here are some interesting things you may, or may not know\u2026.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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#1 They can (mostly) agree on the \u201cstages\u201d:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Excitement<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You see something or feel something that gets you excited. Blood starts to flow, and you get a hard-on. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plateau<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your body starts to rev-up as your blood pressure gets higher. Blood collects in vessels, glans get bigger, thigh and butt muscles start to tense, and you breathe faster. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Orgasm<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Key areas of the body (like the prostate gland, and PC muscles etc.) tense and semen is forced out of the urethra over 10-30 seconds. Chemicals and hormones flood through your system. Parts of your brain light up or shut down to allow for less inhibitions and greater pleasure.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Resolution<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also known as the refractory period. Things go back to normal and the man can\u2019t have an orgasm for a while. It can last anywhere from minutes to days, but, the older you get the longer it takes.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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#2. They\u2019re not only looking at your junk.<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Orgasms occur from two basic responses to continual stimulation:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vasocongestion<\/strong>: Body tissues fill up and swell with blood.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Myotonia<\/strong>: Muscles tense, from voluntary flexing and involuntary contracting.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, some amputees have reported feeling orgasmic sensations where their missing body part was, paralyzed individuals feeling pleasure in inaccessible areas, and certain medicines having a \u201corgasm\u201d side effect. This makes researchers wonder if it\u2019s more to do with the central nervous system rather than the genitals.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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#3. We think it\u2019s simple, but it\u2019s not. <\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Society puts a lot of pressure on the Big-O. HOWEVER, many people say that it\u2019s more about the feeling of connection rather than the toe-curling ending. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Add that to the fact that 1 in 3 men experience premature ejaculation issues at some point in their life and many women can only climax with clitoral stimulation. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finally, evidence strongly suggests that your orgasm is as unique as you are<\/strong>. The steps might be the same, but the stimulus, journey, and reactions are different.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This all leads to a fairly confusing situation. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, the need for bonding, health problems, or diverse sexual paths aren\u2019t the end of our bedroom antics. They simply give us a better understanding of our bodies and better direction on how we can be masters of our own pleasure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, I saved the best for last\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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THERE ARE DIFFERENT KINDS OF ORGASMS<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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YAY!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You would think there\u2019s only one kind of orgasm \u2026 thrusting\/masturbating until fireworks blow. However, just like the ladies, guys can have several kinds of orgasms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yep, you thought you had a single serving when you actually have a buffet…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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1. THE EJACULATION KIND<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is your basic orgasm \u2013 the one you have while fucking and the one that makes you lose control of your pelvic thrusts (unless you practice controlling it) … and look ridiculous. Pretty standard hat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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2. THE PELVIC KIND<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This method is far more elusive and often spoken about in spiritual circles or tantric sex enthusiasts. However, there\u2019s nothing mystical about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The idea is exercising your pelvic floor muscles and training yourself to stop ejaculation in order to avoid the \u201crest period\u201d but still have an orgasm \u2013 one that will feel stronger and last longer. It\u2019s essentially the male version of a multiple orgasm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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3. THE BUTT KIND<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Many guys are shy or down-right against any sexy stuff around their backdoors. This is a shame because the anal area has a ton of nerve endings that can be immensely pleasurable. If you can let your guard down and accept a sex toy or finger up there, you might end up with a new kind of orgasm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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4. THE PROSTATE KIND<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Women have their g-spot, but did you know that men have something similar? It\u2019s called the p-spot (P for Prostate). It\u2019s an area up the bum that is surrounded by LOTS of nerve endings (which also contribute towards orgasms).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can have these Big-Os by stimulating this area with fingers or sex toys. However, he needs to be completely relaxed and into the pleasure for it to work properly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

NOTE:<\/strong> <\/span>If you’re curious about any bum play (but aren’t ready to dive into the deep end yet) you might consider getting a sex toy first.<\/strong> You can buy any size your comfortable with and ease in as slowly as you want. I would recommend these…<\/p>\n\n\n\n