{"id":29727,"date":"2026-01-30T17:42:26","date_gmt":"2026-01-30T17:42:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/?p=29727"},"modified":"2026-04-21T10:24:22","modified_gmt":"2026-04-21T10:24:22","slug":"best-dildo-sex-positions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/best-dildo-sex-positions","title":{"rendered":"Best Dildo Sex Positions: Expert Picks for Better Pleasure"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Using a dildo should feel good, not awkward or exhausting. A lot of people enjoy the toy itself, then get frustrated when certain dildo sex positions start to feel uncomfortable, hard to hold, or just not worth the effort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of the time, that\u2019s not about experience or technique. It\u2019s about choosing positions that actually match the type of dildo you\u2019re using and how your body moves. This guide focuses on dildo sex positions that are realistic, comfortable, and easy to adjust, with clear notes on what works best and why\u2014so you spend less time repositioning and more time enjoying it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<details id=\"simpletoc-details\" class=\"simpletoc\" aria-labelledby=\"simpletoc-title\">\n        <summary style=\"cursor: pointer;\">Table of Contents<\/summary><ul class=\"simpletoc-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#kinds-of-dildos\">Kinds of Dildos<\/a>\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#missionary-dildocompatible\">Missionary (Dildo-Compatible)<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#doggy-style-anchored\">Doggy Style (Anchored)<\/a>\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#chair-cowgirl\">Chair Cowgirl<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#sidelying-spoon-or-modified-missionary\">Side-Lying (Spoon or Modified Missionary)<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#handsfree-lying-back-alt-elevated-hips\">Hands-Free Lying Back (Alt: Elevated Hips)<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#reclined-cowgirl-back-supported\">Reclined Cowgirl (Back Supported)<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#standing-wallmounted\">Standing (Wall-Mounted)<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#doubleended-seated-or-facing\">Double-Ended (Seated or Facing)<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#lotus-facetoface-seated\">Lotus (Face-to-Face Seated)<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#bellydown-chestsupported\">Belly-Down (Chest-Supported)<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#faqs-on-dildos-amp-postitions\">FAQs on Dildos &amp; Postitions<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#final-thought-on-dildo-sex-positions\">Final Thought on Dildo Sex Positions<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#want-more-reads\">Want More Reads?<\/a>\n<\/li><\/ul><\/details>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"kinds-of-dildos\">Kinds of Dildos<\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"610\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gravity-1024x610.jpg\" alt=\"Lovense gravity suction cup base thrusting dildo\" class=\"wp-image-9439\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gravity-1024x610.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gravity-300x179.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gravity-768x457.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gravity.jpg 1179w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Lovense Gravity suction cup base thrusting dildo<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Before we get into dildo sex positions, let&#8217;s take a quick look at what&#8217;s out there and what materials are best vs worst.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><th>Category&nbsp;<\/th><th>Best For&#8230;<\/th><th>Features<\/th><\/tr><tr><td><strong>\ud83c\udf46 Standard<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>General Use<\/strong><\/td><td>Classic shape, non-vibrating, and straightforward.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>\ud83d\udd0b <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/l145hn\">Vibrating<\/a><\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Extra Sensation<\/strong><\/td><td>Internal motors add&nbsp;varying buzz patterns.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>\ud83e\ude9d Curved<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Targeted Spots<\/strong><\/td><td>Specifically angled for&nbsp;G-spot or prostate&nbsp;reach.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>\ud83e\uddf2 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/t7upbk\">Suction Cup<\/a><\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Hands-Free<\/strong><\/td><td>Base sticks to&nbsp;smooth, flat surfaces&nbsp;for solo play.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>\ud83e\udd68 Double-Ended<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Shared Play<\/strong><\/td><td>Long and flexible for use by&nbsp;two people at once.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>\ud83d\udc8e Glass\/Steel<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Temperature Play<\/strong><\/td><td>Non-porous materials&nbsp;that can be warmed or chilled.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>\ud83c\udfce\ufe0f <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/xhly8b\">Auto-Thrust<\/a><\/strong><\/td><td><strong>High Intensity<\/strong><\/td><td>Motorized&nbsp;mechanical movement&nbsp;without manual effort.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Silicone: <\/strong>The gold standard for most users. It\u2019s body-safe, non-porous, and easy to clean.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Hard Material<\/strong>s: Glass and stainless steel are hypoallergenic and last a lifetime if cared for.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Porous Materials: <\/strong>Avoid &#8220;jelly&#8221; or &#8220;rubber&#8221; toys as they can hold onto bacteria and are harder to fully sanitize some ven leech chemicals.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Choosing the right toy is mostly about how you want to use it. You don\u2019t need to obsess over specs or features. The real question is simple: do you want to hold it, or not?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re planning on any anchored dildo sex positions\u2014like mounting it to a wall, chair, or the floor\u2014you\u2019ll need a suction cup base or some kind of solid attachment. If you\u2019d rather stay hands-on and move things around freely, a regular handheld dildo works just fine. There\u2019s no \u201cperfect\u201d toy here, just matching the base to the position you\u2019re in the mood for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d4979fc9c5d84d0ed1daf5df1936b43f\" style=\"font-size:20px\" id=\"10-dildo-sex-positions-you-can-try-tonight\">10 Dildo Sex Positions You Can Try Tonight<\/h3>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"missionary-dildocompatible\">Missionary (Dildo-Compatible)<\/h2>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\ud83c\udf46 Type of Dildo:<\/strong>&nbsp;Standard, Vibrating, or Curved<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\ud83d\udd04 Variations:<\/strong>&nbsp;Pillow under hips, slight side tilt, knees bent<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u2b50 Difficulty:<\/strong>&nbsp;Beginner<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Missionary is a classic for a reason. It\u2019s low-effort, high-reward, and arguably the most comfortable way to get used to a dildo. Since you\u2019re flat on your back, your muscles can actually relax\u2014no worrying about shaky knees or losing your balance mid-way through.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because you\u2019re usually holding the toy yourself, you can dial in the exact depth and speed that feels right. If the angle feels a bit off, just slide a pillow under your hips. That tiny lift changes everything, making insertion smoother and helping curved toys hit the right spots (like the G-spot or prostate) without any awkward maneuvering.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s also the easiest position for multitasking; you\u2019ve got a free hand to play with whatever else feels good. If you\u2019re using something that vibrates, the stillness of the position lets you really feel every pulse. It\u2019s simple, it works, and it\u2019s a solid baseline for pretty much everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"doggy-style-anchored\">Doggy Style (Anchored)<\/h2>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\ud83c\udf46 Type of Dildo:<\/strong>&nbsp;Suction-cup (best) or Strap-on<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\ud83d\udd04 Variations:<\/strong>&nbsp;On all fours, or chest-down (Flat Doggy)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u2b50 Difficulty:<\/strong>&nbsp;Intermediate<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Doggy style is the gold standard for depth, but your hands can get tired fast. Anchor a suction-cup toy to a flat surface\u2014like a sturdy headboard or smooth floor\u2014to make it hands-free. This lets you focus entirely on your own pace without worrying about the toy slipping or your grip giving out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Note on height: <\/strong>If the toy is too low, you\u2019ll strain your back; too high, and the angle feels off. Try using a few pillows under your knees or chest to get your body at the perfect level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"affiliate-style-137e7bad-12d3-41d9-81db-a118376814b9\" class=\"wp-block-affiliate-booster-ab-coupon2 affiliate-block-137e7bad-12d3-41d9-81db-a118376814b9 affiliate-coupon-wrapper layout1 style2\"><ul class=\"affiliate-coupon-inner block2 colblock1 style2\"><li class=\"affiliate-block-col box1\"><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-starrating1\"><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><\/div><p class=\"affiliate-coupon-title1\">Velvo &#8211; World&#8217;s First Rolling Bead Rabbit Vibrator<\/p><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-image1\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/image-200-edited.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-btn\"><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-btn-wrapper1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/n8pnmt\" class=\"affiliate-btn  btn-is-small btn-is-fullw btn-is-rounded\" rel=\"nofollow\"><i class=\"affiliate-abbtn-icon  af-icon-is-left\"><\/i>Get Velvo Here<i class=\"affiliate-abbtn-icon af-icon-is-right\"><\/i><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-productcol1-amzon-price below\"><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-productcol1-amzon-rating below\"><\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-eb9e6e56baab922903db1a58fa4c99ee\" id=\"learn-more-about-velvo\">Learn More About Velvo<\/h3>\n\n\n<p>Velvo stands out with a patented 360\u00b0 rolling bead design powered by NeoSpin Technology, combining rotating G-spot stimulation with dedicated clitoral vibration. Its dual-control design lets each arm be adjusted independently, giving users more control over intensity, rhythm, and sensation instead of locking everything into one fixed mode.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Up to 165 rotations per minute<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Built from body-safe silicone<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Rated IPX7 waterproof for shower or bath<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Charges in 110 minutes, runs for up to 78 minutes<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Supports unlimited vibration patterns<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>What makes Velvo especially distinctive within the Lovense lineup is its long-distance connectivity and \u201cMaster Controller\u201d capability. It can also pair with compatible Lovense toys, so motion and intensity can sync across devices, turning it into a more interactive option for partnered play rather than just a solo toy with remote access. Through the app, users can create custom patterns, sync the toy to music or sound, adjust vibration levels in real time, or hand control to a partner anywhere in the world. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Velvo is a premium rabbit designed for people who want both deep, mixed sensations and app-driven features.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"chair-cowgirl\">Chair Cowgirl<\/h2>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\ud83c\udf46 Type of Dildo:<\/strong>&nbsp;Suction-cup (best) or Standard (with hand support)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\ud83d\udd04 Variations:<\/strong>&nbsp;Facing toward or away from the chair back<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u2b50 Difficulty:<\/strong>&nbsp;Intermediate<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>If you love the depth of cowgirl but your joints aren&#8217;t into it, grab a chair. It\u2019s perfect for using your body weight for pressure without the leg strain. A suction-cup dildo on the seat gives you a stable base that isn&#8217;t going anywhere.<br>Use the chair back for balance or your arms to control how much weight you\u2019re putting down. It\u2019s way less tiring than kneeling on a bed. This feels more intentional and sturdy than being on a soft mattress, letting you stay in control without breaking a sweat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"sidelying-spoon-or-modified-missionary\">Side-Lying (Spoon or Modified Missionary)<\/h2>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\ud83c\udf46 Type of Dildo:<\/strong>&nbsp;Standard, Vibrating, or Curved Prostate\/G-Spot dildo<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\ud83d\udd04 Variations:<\/strong>&nbsp;One leg lifted (Modified), or both legs bent (Spoon)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u2b50 Difficulty:<\/strong>&nbsp;Beginner<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Think of this as the &#8220;lazy Sunday&#8221; of positions. You\u2019re lying on your side, supported by the bed, so there\u2019s zero pressure on your wrists or knees. Since your body is relaxed, your muscles don&#8217;t tense up as much, which makes everything feel smoother. Try it if you want a slow, chill session without any physical &#8220;work.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Side Note: <\/strong>If you\u2019re using a curved toy, this angle is a total cheat code. Being on your side naturally tilts your pelvis, helping those curved tips hit the right spots without any awkward maneuvering. To make it even better, try hiking your top leg up or resting it on a pillow to open things up. It leaves your hands free to multitask and keeps the focus exactly where you want it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"handsfree-lying-back-alt-elevated-hips\">Hands-Free Lying Back (Alt: Elevated Hips)<\/h2>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\ud83c\udf46 Type of Dildo:<\/strong>&nbsp;Auto-Thrusting Dildo<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\ud83d\udd04 Variations:<\/strong>&nbsp;Pillow stack, wedge support, or knees pulled in<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u2b50 Difficulty:<\/strong>&nbsp;Beginner<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Since auto-thrusters can be heavy or awkward to hold, propping your butt up on a&nbsp;wedge pillow&nbsp;lets the machine do its job more easily. You just find your angle, lean back, and let the motor take over. It\u2019s perfect for when you want the intensity of a fast pace but literally don&#8217;t want to lift a finger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Auto-thrusting sex toys will always be more expensive, so make sure this is what you really want &#8211; we suggest trying other positions with normal suction cup bases first. If you do take the plunge, remember to do your research first &#8211; read reviews, look at returns or warranties. App-controlled dildos are best if you want to control speed or patterns without having to move.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"reclined-cowgirl-back-supported\">Reclined Cowgirl (Back Supported)<\/h2>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\ud83c\udf46 Type of Dildo: Suction-cup dildo<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\ud83d\udd04 Variations: Leaned-back seat, couch edge support, low squat with back brace<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u2b50 Difficulty: Beginner\u2013Intermediate<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Think of this as &#8220;Cowgirl 2.0&#8243;\u2014all the control of being on top, but without the leg workout that leaves you shaking. By leaning back against a couch or a pile of sturdy pillows, you shift the weight off your knees and onto your back. It\u2019s a total game-changer if you want to stay in charge of the pace but don&#8217;t want to feel like you&#8217;re at the gym. Because you&#8217;re supported, it\u2019s way easier to find that perfect consistent pace and stay there for a while.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The best part about this angle is how much it opens everything up. Since you aren&#8217;t balancing on your own, your hands are completely free to explore or use a second toy. If you\u2019re using a suction-cup dildo on a smooth floor or a low stool, leaning back lets you use your body weight to press down for more intensity whenever you want. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"standing-wallmounted\">Standing (Wall-Mounted)<\/h2>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\ud83c\udf46 Type of Dildo: Suction-cup dildo only<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\ud83d\udd04 Variations: Facing the wall, turned slightly sideways, one foot raised<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u2b50 Difficulty: Intermediate<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not the kind of position you\u2019d choose for a long, lazy session, but it\u2019s perfect if you want something fast and different from the bed. Since your body is doing all the balancing, keep your movements smaller and more controlled. <strong>Pro tip:<\/strong> lean your forearms against the wall for extra stability so you don&#8217;t feel like you&#8217;re going to topple over when things get moving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To get a suction cup to actually stay put, you need a surface that is totally smooth and doesn&#8217;t &#8220;breathe.&#8221; If air can get under the base, the toy is going to fall off mid-session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Stick to these surfaces for the best grip:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Glass &amp; Mirrors:<\/strong>&nbsp;These are the gold standard. A glass shower door or a big [anchored down] mirror will give you a rock-solid hold.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Smooth Tile:<\/strong>&nbsp;Large, polished bathroom tiles work great\u2014just make sure the suction cup isn&#8217;t sitting over a grout line, or it\u2019ll pop right off.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Shiny Metal:<\/strong>&nbsp;The side of a fridge or a metal cabinet works surprisingly well because the surface is so flat.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Polished Wood:<\/strong>&nbsp;If your furniture has a thick, glossy finish, it\u2019ll work. If it feels &#8220;raw&#8221; or matte, skip it.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Whatever you do,&nbsp;<strong>avoid plain painted walls<\/strong>. Standard drywall is too porous for a suction cup to grab onto, and there\u2019s a good chance you\u2019ll peel the paint right off when you try to remove the toy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"doubleended-seated-or-facing\">Double-Ended (Seated or Facing)<\/h2>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\ud83c\udf46 Type of Dildo:<\/strong>&nbsp;Double-ended dildo<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\ud83d\udd04 Variations:<\/strong>&nbsp;Seated facing each other, reclined solo, or hip-to-hip<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u2b50 Difficulty:<\/strong>&nbsp;Intermediate<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether you&#8217;re using it with someone else or just on your own, the trick is to let your hips do a gentle rocking motion. Once you get both ends settled, it\u2019s actually pretty low-effort. You don&#8217;t have to do much &#8220;work&#8221; with your hands, so you can just lean back and enjoy the feeling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re with a partner, sitting face-to-face is the easiest way to keep things lined up. If you&#8217;re flying solo, you can recline and use one end for yourself while using the other as a handle to control the angle. 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It\u2019s less about deep thrusting and more about subtle movements, which is a nice change of pace if you\u2019re tired of positions that feel like a cardio workout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"affiliate-style-6a82a0c5-e883-455f-8213-5a19b8089f5c\" class=\"affiliate-block-undefined affiliate-notice-wrapper\"><div class=\"affiliate-notice-inner affiliate-block-advanced-list\"><div class=\"affiliate-notice-title\"><p id=\"lotus-vs-double\">Lotus vs Double<\/p><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-notice-cntn-wrapper\"><p class=\"affiliate-notice-content\"><strong>The main difference is the movement. <\/strong>Lotus is just sitting on a single toy and grinding. Double-Ended is more like being &#8220;tethered&#8221; together; you have to rock your hips in sync to keep both ends from slipping out. 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You can actually relax your muscles, which makes the whole experience feel a lot smoother. If you\u2019re using a suction-cup toy on the floor, try hanging your chest over the edge of the bed for support. It keeps you stable and lets you control the depth just by shifting your weight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-luminous-vivid-orange-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-55303f26f3532e7168f49164411680b2\"><strong>Lovense app-controlled dildos &#8211; perfect for solo, partnered, or long-distance play<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"affiliate-style-0cec2c03-9b32-4723-bb91-cccd0741542c\" class=\"wp-block-affiliate-booster-ab-coupon2 affiliate-block-0cec2c03-9b32-4723-bb91-cccd0741542c affiliate-coupon-wrapper layout1 style2\"><ul class=\"affiliate-coupon-inner block2 colblock2 style2\"><li class=\"affiliate-block-col box1\"><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-starrating1\"><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><\/div><p class=\"affiliate-coupon-title1\"><strong>Nora &#8211; Rabbit Vibrator<\/strong><\/p><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-image1\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/nora.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-block-advanced-list affiliate-coupon-list1\"><ul class=\"affiliate-list1 affiliate-list-type-unordered  affiliate-alignment-left affiliate-list-bullet-check\"><li>Body-safe material and easy to clean<\/li><li>Shaped to fit your body<\/li><li>Auto-adjusting rotation &amp; vibration<\/li><li>Customized patterns via the app<\/li><\/ul><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-btn\"><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-btn-wrapper1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/p\/2JNCWG\" class=\"affiliate-btn  btn-is-small btn-is-fullw btn-is-rounded\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><i class=\"affiliate-abbtn-icon  af-icon-is-left\"><\/i>Learn More About Nora<i class=\"affiliate-abbtn-icon af-icon-is-right\"><\/i><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-productcol1-amzon-price below\"><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-productcol1-amzon-rating below\"><\/div><\/li><li class=\"affiliate-block-col box2\"><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-starrating2\"><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><\/div><p class=\"affiliate-coupon-title2\"><strong>Mission 2 &#8211; Suction cup Dildios<\/strong><\/p><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-image2\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Mission2-front.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-block-advanced-list affiliate-coupon-list2\"><ul class=\"affiliate-list2 affiliate-list-type-unordered  affiliate-alignment-left affiliate-list-bullet-check\"><li>180\u00b0 adjustable &#8211; helps find out perfect angles<\/li><li>Strong suction cup for hands-free fun <\/li><li>Food grade silicone to ensure safety<\/li><li>Up to 6,500 vibration\/min(adjustable)<\/li><\/ul><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-btn\"><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-btn-wrapper2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/p\/2JND7T\" class=\"affiliate-btn  btn-is-small btn-is-fullw btn-is-rounded\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><i class=\"affiliate-abbtn-icon  af-icon-is-left\"><\/i>Learn More About Mission 2<i class=\"affiliate-abbtn-icon af-icon-is-right\"><\/i><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-productcol2-amzon-price below\"><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-productcol2-amzon-rating below\"><\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"faqs-on-dildos-amp-postitions\">FAQs on Dildos &amp; Postitions<\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"schema-faq wp-block-yoast-faq-block\"><div class=\"schema-faq-section\" id=\"faq-question-1769776463167\"><strong class=\"schema-faq-question\">Do I need a suction-cup dildo for all dildo sex positions?<\/strong> <p class=\"schema-faq-answer\">No. Suction-cup bases are only needed for hands-free or anchored positions. If you plan to hold the toy and control the movement yourself, a regular handheld dildo works fine.<\/p> <\/div> <div class=\"schema-faq-section\" id=\"faq-question-1769776478556\"><strong class=\"schema-faq-question\">How important is lube for dildo sex positions?<\/strong> <p class=\"schema-faq-answer\">Very. Lube makes everything smoother, more comfortable, and easier to control, especially in positions that involve pressure or repeated movement. If you&#8217;re using sex toys, stick to water-based lube..<\/p> <\/div> <div class=\"schema-faq-section\" id=\"faq-question-1769776516732\"><strong class=\"schema-faq-question\">Does the material of a dildo matter for different positions?<\/strong> <p class=\"schema-faq-answer\">Yes. Softer silicone dildos tend to feel more forgiving in positions that put pressure on the body, while firmer materials give more direct feedback but less flexibility. The material can affect comfort just as much as the position itself.<\/p> <\/div> <div class=\"schema-faq-section\" id=\"faq-question-1769776529505\"><strong class=\"schema-faq-question\">Are hands-free dildo sex positions better than handheld ones?<\/strong> <p class=\"schema-faq-answer\">Not better\u2014just different. Hands-free positions reduce arm fatigue, but they limit angle control. Handheld positions give you more precision but can tire your hands over time.<\/p> <\/div> <div class=\"schema-faq-section\" id=\"faq-question-1769776541574\"><strong class=\"schema-faq-question\"><strong>Are certain dildo sex positions better for solo play versus partnered play?<\/strong><\/strong> <p class=\"schema-faq-answer\">Yes. Solo positions are usually easier and more self-controlled, while partnered positions work best when both people can help with stability, angle, or pacing.<\/p> <\/div> <\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"final-thought-on-dildo-sex-positions\">Final Thought on Dildo Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The big takeaway here is that pretty much a<strong>ny reasonable sex position can be adapted to work with a dildo. <\/strong>We aren&#8217;t counting those crazy ones that look like you\u2019d need to be training for Cirque du Soleil just to pull them off. If a position requires professional-level flexibility or looks like a literal stunt, it\u2019s probably not worth the muscle cramp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stick to the basics that already feel good and just tweak them to fit your toy. Whether that means grabbing a supportive wedge or using a chair for balance, the goal is to enjoy yourself without needing a background in gymnastics. As long as you have the right body-safe lube and a comfortable spot, you can make almost any &#8220;normal&#8221; position a winner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"want-more-reads\">Want More Reads?<\/h2>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/crazy-sex-positions-try-tonight\">Crazy Sex Positions to Try Tonight &#8211; Some Even Beginner Friendly<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/sex-machine-positions\">15 Best Sex Machine Positions for Maximum Pleasure<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/missionary-position\">Missionary Position: Why It Deserves More Love and What You&#8217;re Missing<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Using a dildo should feel good, not awkward or exhausting. 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