{"id":165,"date":"2016-11-22T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2016-11-22T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.lovenselife.com\/uncategorized\/how-to-talk-dirty"},"modified":"2026-02-26T09:09:07","modified_gmt":"2026-02-26T09:09:07","slug":"how-to-talk-dirty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/sex-life\/intimate-relationship\/how-to-talk-dirty","title":{"rendered":"50+ Raunchy Phrases &#8211; Beginner&#8217;s Guide on How to Talk Dirty"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Going from the lips of an angel to the mouth of a sailor isn&#8217;t something that comes naturally to everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But is the ability to whisper dirty nothings in the bedroom a task that is necessary to your sexual survival?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hell no.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s only a skill that adds spice to your escapades &#8211; like throwing sprinkles on cupcakes or an extra dash of salt to your steak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So how do you add those sprinkles?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-don-t-fight-your-personality\"><span style=\"font-size: 26px; color: #d70072;\"><strong>1. DON\u2019T FIGHT YOUR PERSONALITY<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>If there is any language you normally find offensive (Eg. c*nt), that doesn&#8217;t mean you have to spout it during the throws of passion &#8211; chances are you&#8217;ll just freak out your partner and make them wonder if you&#8217;re possessed by a demon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Using profane language isn&#8217;t even necessary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&#8217;re not the kind who is used to giving orders in the bedroom, you don&#8217;t have to turn into a full dominatrix.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You will still be YOU &#8211; just a version that has turned up the heat a few degrees.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-find-inspiration\"><span style=\"font-size: 26px; color: #d70072;\"><strong>2. <\/strong><strong>FIND INSPIRATION<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>There is an endless supply of homework material out there &#8211; music, erotic, novels, dirty poetry, and PORN.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There&#8217;s also a wide enough variety that you can find something more tailor-made to your persona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>If you&#8217;ve never uttered a single dirty word in your life, search for something more soft-core.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you\u2019re more versed in this language, look for something harder.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Hear something you like? Write it down &#8211; (in a secret notebook you keep hidden in the basement with the old Christmas decorations if you need to).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Veer away from most <em>medical <\/em>terms for body parts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are a few exceptions that are interchangeable between a visit to the doctor and a visit to Hanky-Pank Town, but most just leave people giggling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><span style=\"font-size: 18px; color: #d70072;\"><strong>&#8220;I want to slowly run my lips down your labia majora&#8221;&nbsp;&#8230; not sexy.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><span style=\"font-size: 18px; color: #d70072;\"><strong>&#8220;I want to slowly run my lips down your pussy&#8221;&nbsp;&#8230; better.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-communicate\"><span style=\"font-size: 26px; color: #d70072;\"><strong>3. COMMUNICATE<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe you have to ease your partner into the idea. Or perhaps they&#8217;re more ready, and you&#8217;re the one stepping into new territory.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Regardless, talking about it is important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At a minimum, you need to be aware of any&nbsp;<em>triggers<\/em>&nbsp;(words or actions that will immediately destroy the mood). Openly and honestly tell them what things you will not say or can&#8217;t stand to hear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you missed one, and they shout it during playtime, don&#8217;t get furious. Take a moment to say something like, &#8220;Please don&#8217;t use that word&#8221; or&nbsp;&#8220;I don&#8217;t like that word&#8221;, and let them make a mental note for the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #d70072;\"><strong>NOTE:<\/strong> <\/span>Playtime vs. Other Time is different&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If someone called me a whore in everyday life, they could expect a swift kick to the nuts\/vag,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But&#8230;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If my partner whispers,&nbsp;<em>&#8220;God, you&#8217;re a dirty, little whore, and I fucking love it&#8221;<\/em>&nbsp;in my ear while we are in the middle of a passion session &#8230; he better hold on for dear life because wild girl will emerge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-practice-makes-perfect\"><span style=\"font-size: 26px; color: #d70072;\"><strong>4. <\/strong><strong>PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>The biggest mistake someone can make is trying to go from a fumbling novice to a sultry porn star overnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And unless you are one of the lucky few who can bend language over the knee and instantly make it your bitch, it takes <em>time <\/em>to form an eloquent tongue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Write it down<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Practice by yourself<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Speak it OUT LOUD<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>For those of you who have done public speaking, you know that reading something in your head is totally different from reading out loud.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-no-sounding-ridiculous\"><span style=\"font-size: 26px; color: #d70072;\"><strong>5. NO SOUNDING RIDICULOUS<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Make it like a sexy siren<\/em>&#8220;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I cringed when I read this in another article.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mostly because it sounds like something out of Madame Gertrude&#8217;s Dollar Discount Sex Classes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Besides,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&#8217;ve never heard a siren before, how in the hell do you know how to speak like one? And watching porn or memorizing Marilyn Monroe is only making you adapt&nbsp;<em>another<\/em>&nbsp;person&#8217;s voice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s much better to say, &#8220;Don&#8217;t use your <em>everyday <\/em>tone\/voice.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s the difference between:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px; color: #d70072;\"><strong>\u201d<em>Take off your shirt&#8221;&nbsp;<\/em>(because I&#8217;m about to do a load of laundry)&nbsp;<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">and&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px; color: #d70072;\"><strong><em>&#8220;Take off your shirt&#8221;&nbsp;<\/em>(because I&#8217;m going to ride you until you can&#8217;t walk anymore)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Try a tone higher or lower, whimper, whisper, deeper, slower &#8211; whatever you&#8217;re comfortable with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And guess what?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the middle of sex, you&#8217;re&nbsp;<em>already<\/em>&nbsp;going to have that sexy voice. It&#8217;s just the foreplay that might be an effort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-ease-into-it\"><span style=\"font-size: 26px; color: #d70072;\"><strong>6. EASE INTO IT<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>You might see this piece of advice floating around the web &#8211; and I agree with it &#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2026to a point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s true that jumping into hard-core language too quickly can be a total turn-off, and it&#8217;s a good idea to build the heat slowly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&#8217;re both comfortable enough with dirty talk, sometimes a spontaneous,<em>&nbsp;&#8220;Get in the bedroom and get your dick hard&#8221;<\/em>&nbsp;can be unbelievably hot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-body-language\"><span style=\"font-size: 26px; color: #d70072;\"><strong>7. BODY LANGUAGE<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>A ridiculously high percentage of what we communicate is <strong>non-verbal<\/strong> (body language, facial expressions etc.).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It can also change a simple invitation to come to the bedroom to something that will make them scamper faster than a kid towards an ice-cream truck.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Try:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Leaning in<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Touching skin<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Running your fingers through their hair<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tracing your fingers along their jaw<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Or (my favorite) grazing your lips along their ear while you whisper<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-phrases-you-can-try\"><span style=\"font-size: 26px; color: #d70072;\"><strong>8. PHRASES YOU CAN TRY<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #d70072;\"><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\"><strong>ORDERS AND INSTRUCTIONS<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><em>Taking charge can be hot as hell<\/em><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Get in the bedroom and &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Get on the bed and &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Put your &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Take off your &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Touch yourself for me<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Keep doing that<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Don&#8217;t stop!<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Fuck me like you own me<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Grab\/lick\/squeeze\/bite (body part)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Fuck me harder<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Fill me up<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I&#8217;m going to fill you up<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I&#8217;m going to do whatever I want to you<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Get on your knees and &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Cum for me<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Take me any way you want<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Use me!<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Don&#8217;t you dare move<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #d70072;\"><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\"><strong>COMPLIMENTS AND FEEDBACK<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><em>Egos need stroking more than other body parts<\/em><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>God, you&#8217;re so sexy\/beautiful\/big\/hot etc.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I was thinking about you&#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I love feeling &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I love it when you &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You&#8217;re an amazing kisser<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You taste\/smell so good<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I get so wet when I think about you<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I&#8217;m still sore\/can&#8217;t walk from last night<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I touched myself while thinking about you &#8211; \u00a0(great as a text message)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I want to rip off your clothes and take you right here<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nobody can fuck me like you do<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>That feels amazing<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I love when you &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I can&#8217;t wait to &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I need you right now &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I want you to &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I want to &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I&#8217;m coming<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I miss\u00a0your\u00a0&#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #d70072;\"><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\"><strong>QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><em>Audience participation<\/em><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Do you like it when I &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What do you want me to do to you?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What do you feel like doing to me?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do you want it harder\/faster\/slower\u00a0etc.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Guess what panties I&#8217;m wearing?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What position do you want most tonight?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How do you want to get fucked?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Guess what I&#8217;m going to do to you later?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Who does this pussy\/cock belong to?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Are you going to be a good little girl\/boy?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Where do you want me to cum?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Get on your knees.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do you have any idea what I&#8217;m going to do to you?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Say it (forcing someone to admit something delicious)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #d70072;\"><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\"><strong>OTHER THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Try dominant and submissive related language<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try role-play<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Describe your fantasies &#8230; in detail<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Don&#8217;t get repetitive &#8211; it sounds like a bad porn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Pay attention and take cues<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A simple apology, and a kiss, if you say something wrong<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Stay positive about feedback and communication. Negativity makes people close up and not want to go down that path again.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Be detailed<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Be confident<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Don&#8217;t restrict it to JUST the bedroom<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>If all else fails, the easiest thing you can utter is a moan. It&#8217;s simple but powerful positive reinforcement that they&#8217;re doing a good job.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, I hoped some of this helped you on your way to some damn hot sailor&#8217;s mouth!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px; color: #d70072;\"><strong>However, if you need more inspiration, you might want to check out these articles:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-tips\/sexting-tips\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">12 Sexting Tips That Will Drastically Improve Your Game<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-tips\/sexting-games\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">17 Naughty Sexting Games You Must Try Now<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\"><a title=\"Learn how to have great phone sex with these useful tips on software, fun activities, word choices, and more.\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-tips\/how-to-have-phone-sex\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">25 Tips on How to Have Phone Sex &#8211; Get Your Dirty Talk On<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Going from the lips of an angel to the mouth of a sailor isn&#8217;t something that comes naturally to everyone. 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