{"id":11849,"date":"2023-09-13T17:32:21","date_gmt":"2023-09-13T17:32:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/?p=11849"},"modified":"2025-08-26T22:10:24","modified_gmt":"2025-08-26T22:10:24","slug":"anal-stretching-guide-for-large-toys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/how-to-have-sex\/sex-tips\/anal-stretching-guide-for-large-toys","title":{"rendered":"The Big Guide to Anal Stretching &#8211; How to Size Up for Huge Sex Toys"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your bum is just a beginner, and anything larger than a finger makes you run away screaming, this guide might not be for you. But if the idea of playing with <strong>large anal toys<\/strong> is a turn-on, then learning about <strong>intermediate to advanced anal stretching (also called anal training) <\/strong>will be very helpful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, if you&#8217;re just curious (and still don&#8217;t want to experience it), this is a safe space for educational reading. Everyone is welcome here!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this article, we&#8217;re going to cover<strong> <\/strong>why people love<strong> intense anal play, <\/strong>how to prepare yourself, what are some of the <strong>best anal lubes<\/strong>, safety tips, frequently asked questions, and other useful\/vital info to help you achieve your sizing goals. So, let&#8217;s dive in!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\"><strong>Note: Nobody here is a doctor. So take all of this as general suggestions and not step-by-step dogma.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-yoast-seo-table-of-contents yoast-table-of-contents\"><h2>Table of Contents<\/h2><ul><li><a href=\"#h-what-is-anal-stretching-why\" data-level=\"2\">What is Anal Stretching &amp; Why?<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-how-to-prepare-for-expansion\" data-level=\"2\">How to Prepare for Expansion<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-why-sex-lube-is-important\" data-level=\"2\">Why Sex Lube is Important!<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-how-to-anal-stretch-safely-using-with-big-objects\" data-level=\"2\">How to Anal Stretch Safely Using With Big Objects<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-how-to-clean-up\" data-level=\"2\">How To Clean Up <\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-warnings-vs-side-effects\" data-level=\"2\">Warnings Vs. Side-Effects<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-which-anal-sex-toys-are-safe-for-stretching\" data-level=\"2\">Which Anal Sex Toys Are Safe for Stretching<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-faqs-about-getting-a-bigger-bum-hole\" data-level=\"2\">FAQs About Getting a Bigger Bum Hole<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-anal-stretching-for-large-sex-toys-end-thoughts\" data-level=\"2\">Anal Stretching for Large Sex Toys &#8211; End Thoughts<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-want-more-useful-articles-like-this\" data-level=\"2\">Want More Useful Articles Like This?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-anal-stretching-why\"><strong>What is Anal Stretching &amp; Why?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"730\" height=\"411\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-214-edited.png\" alt=\"man pulling mouth open, anal stretching guide\" class=\"wp-image-11868\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-214-edited.png 730w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-214-edited-300x169.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 730px) 100vw, 730px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: Source Unknown<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Advanced anal stretching or extreme anal training<\/strong> are exercises and techniques that help experienced players take on large or even <strong>huge anal toys<\/strong>, prepare for more intense <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/sex-tips\/what-is-pegging\">pegging<\/a><\/strong>, use <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/oxan8h\">prostate massagers<\/a><\/strong> more effectively, and\/or enjoy &#8220;<strong>gaping<\/strong>&#8221; (where after or during play they can see the anus stretched wide open. You will see plenty of examples of this in porn or through the hashtag HoleGoals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As for why people like this? It&#8217;s no different than any other anal play. <strong>The area around your bum hole has lots of nerve endings <\/strong>&#8211;  just like our other erogenous zones. The simple act of rimming (oral pleasure around the outside of an anus) can be quite thrilling. So we just take this idea and ramp it up to sizes that will sometimes boggle people&#8217;s minds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-prepare-for-expansion\"><strong>How to Prepare for Expansion<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1125\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-213-edited.png\" alt=\"Man holding an anal stretcher behind his back, metal speculum\" class=\"wp-image-11855\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-213-edited.png 2000w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-213-edited-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-213-edited-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-213-edited-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-213-edited-1536x864.png 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2000px) 100vw, 2000px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: meo.de\/en &#8211; <strong>One kind of anal stretcher<\/strong> <strong>for advanced users<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As you can see from the video, advanced anal stretching is NOT something that can be done quickly. It takes time, patience, and the desire to experience the entire pleasurable journey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When it comes to preparation, <strong>the first stage is about research.<\/strong> Because, by now, you should already be well past the basics. At this point, there are new obstacles or things to keep in mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>What is the <strong>estimated timeline <\/strong>of your stretching goal? Which is obviously adjustable.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>How much time<\/strong> in one day or throughout the week can you dedicate to practice?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What <strong>new toys or devices<\/strong> do you want to start incorporating (and are they safe)?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do you want to do this <strong>solo or with another person<\/strong>(s)?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What are your &#8220;<strong>sensory&#8221; goals<\/strong>&#8220;? Things like pure sexual excitement, power exchange, etc.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you are going to be <strong>douching or light enemas more often<\/strong>? Are there extra health concerns or steps you need to take to stay safe?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do you need to <strong>change your anal lube<\/strong> to a different brand that&#8217;s targeted to larger insertions?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Are your supporters a <strong>healthy influence<\/strong>?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Is your sex toy hygiene up to scratch?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\"><strong>NOTE: Preparation at this stage should involve lots of planning and self-awareness.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-sex-lube-is-important\"><strong>Why Sex Lube is Important!<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns are-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-1 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Normally, with any anal play, you\u2019ll be using a lot of lube. But with large toys or fisting etc., you\u2019ll need MORE \u2026 like A LOT more &#8211; ocean&#8217;s worth.  But which <strong>anal lubes<\/strong> are going to get the job done the right way &#8211; and there are a ton of them on the market to suit any preference. <strong>Here&#8217;s the conundrum\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>Water-based<\/b><\/span> is the safest for most sex toys, but it <strong>absorbs into the body faster.<\/strong> This means you\u2019ll have to take the toy out and reapply far more often.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>Silicone<\/b> <\/span>will go much further but it cannot, repeat CANNOT, be used with silicone toys. Even the ones that are meant specifically for anal play. <strong>The lube will degrade the toy. <\/strong>I experienced this firsthand when I accidentally used the wrong bottle. It was like trying to clean up the worst kind of sticker glue that just wouldn&#8217;t go away.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>Oil-based<\/b><\/span> is the <strong>magic potion for advanced anal play<\/strong>. I\u2019ve even seen sex shops sell Crisco lard as a lube. <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>Powders<\/b><\/span> <\/strong>that you add water that creates a sort of &#8220;<strong>slime<\/strong>&#8220;, which is also another ideal product for these sessions. But I haven\u2019t used them so I don&#8217;t know how they affect toys.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With all these choices out there, which one is best? In my opinion, the <strong>best anal lubes<\/strong> are ones that are <strong>long-lasting, aren&#8217;t tacky\/sticky in texture, and won&#8217;t hurt your rubber\/TPE, silicone, or other soft-textured sex toys. <\/strong>Unless, of course, you&#8217;re using medical-grade steel, then you&#8217;ll have more choices. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"2016\" height=\"1134\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-5-edited.png\" alt=\"Boy Butter anal lube owner at sales table\" class=\"wp-image-11922\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-5-edited.png 2016w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-5-edited-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-5-edited-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-5-edited-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-5-edited-1536x864.png 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2016px) 100vw, 2016px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: Facebook\/<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/boybutterlubes?__cft__[0]=AZWOWeGwp_57OKzalvuIkjp_qBPvS5ee2JZaGFkQV9vrl88OJVKwkgiWkVQrMjh5F-RmqRRPSqXj3aYX5ZK1y9E3OCbRo0gfRuIYmthuEBvObkim_bKhG0-o5lpuFVliyJ8g4BsI0OnFA-S4MhMhIQSJdBcXhYmMVz__mhIUapPY0w&amp;__tn__=-]C%2CP-R\">Boy Butter Lubricants<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\" id=\"h-here-are-some-well-known-and-customer-approved-examples\"><strong>Here are some well-known and customer-approved<\/strong> <strong>examples&#8230;<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Pjur <\/strong>Power Premium Cream<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Swiss Navy <\/strong>Grease<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>SKYN <\/strong>All Night Long Silicone<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Sliquid <\/strong>Silver Silicone<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Master Serie<\/strong>s Invade Deep Fisting Cream<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>J-Lube or J-Jelly<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Anything from <strong>Boy Butter<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-anal-stretch-safely-using-with-big-objects\"><strong>How to Anal Stretch Safely Using With Big Objects<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"710\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-211.png\" alt=\"close up of a pear, how to anal stretch\" class=\"wp-image-11852\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-211.png 710w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-211-300x169.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 710px) 100vw, 710px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: Trade Me<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you have your eye on that traffic cone sitting on the top shelf of your local sex shop, remember \u2026 it\u2019s going to take you a <i>while<\/i> to get there. In a sense, <strong>you&#8217;re sharing similar steps to beginner anal players, but without the freaked-out<\/strong> feelings that come with inexperience. You&#8217;ll be stretching <i>gradually<\/i> over months. It\u2019s a marathon, not a race. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As for which methods you want to try &#8211; like adjustable anal rings, medical-looking tools, larger anal trainers or butt plugs, or dildos &#8211;  it doesn&#8217;t matter. Dealer&#8217;s choice. But there are <strong>anal sex toy<\/strong> considerations you need to keep in mind (which we will cover later in this article).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d0b21460fdf2a7661be925a1999222d7\" style=\"color:#d70072;font-size:17px\"><strong>Try some vibrations with your anal play with Lovense App-controlled anal toys..<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"affiliate-style-1fef58e4-e8c0-4c74-b7a8-539552645d68\" class=\"wp-block-affiliate-booster-ab-coupon2 affiliate-block-1fef58e4-e8c0-4c74-b7a8-539552645d68 affiliate-coupon-wrapper layout1 style2\"><ul class=\"affiliate-coupon-inner block2 colblock2 style2\"><li class=\"affiliate-block-col box1\"><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-starrating1\"><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><\/div><p class=\"affiliate-coupon-title1\"><strong>Hush 2 \u2013 Bluetooth Butt Plug<\/strong><\/p><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-image1\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/hush-2.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-block-advanced-list affiliate-coupon-list1\"><ul class=\"affiliate-list1 affiliate-list-type-unordered  affiliate-alignment-left affiliate-list-bullet-circle\"><li>Discreet toy for solo or partner play<\/li><li>Smooth, body-safe silicone<\/li><li>Multiple vibration settings<\/li><li>Works long-distance with the Lovense app<\/li><\/ul><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-btn\"><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-btn-wrapper1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/p\/2JG3Qv\" class=\"affiliate-btn  btn-is-small btn-is-fullw btn-is-rounded\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><i class=\"affiliate-abbtn-icon  af-icon-is-left\"><\/i> Explore Hush 2<i class=\"affiliate-abbtn-icon af-icon-is-right\"><\/i><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-productcol1-amzon-price below\"><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-productcol1-amzon-rating below\"><\/div><\/li><li class=\"affiliate-block-col box2\"><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-starrating2\"><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-star-item\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" style=\"fill:#ffa500\" fill=\"#ffa500\" viewBox=\"0 0 510 510\"><polygon points=\"255,402.212 412.59,497.25 370.897,318.011 510,197.472 326.63,181.738 255,12.75 183.371,181.738 0,197.472 139.103,318.011 97.41,497.25\" id=\"star\"><\/polygon><\/svg><\/div><\/div><p class=\"affiliate-coupon-title2\"><strong>Edge 2 \u2013 Adjustable Prostate Massager<\/strong><\/p><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-image2\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-8.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-block-advanced-list affiliate-coupon-list2\"><ul class=\"affiliate-list2 affiliate-list-type-unordered  affiliate-alignment-left affiliate-list-bullet-circle\"><li>Adjustable neck for targeted prostate play<\/li><li>Dual motors with deep vibrations<\/li><li>Great for edging and control-focused play<\/li><li>Fully app-compatible for hands-free or partner use<\/li><\/ul><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-btn\"><div class=\"affiliate-coupon-btn-wrapper2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/p\/2JG4aD\" class=\"affiliate-btn  btn-is-small btn-is-fullw btn-is-rounded\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><i class=\"affiliate-abbtn-icon  af-icon-is-left\"><\/i>Explore Edge 2<i class=\"affiliate-abbtn-icon af-icon-is-right\"><\/i><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-productcol2-amzon-price below\"><\/div><div class=\"affiliate-productcol2-amzon-rating below\"><\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\" id=\"h-prepare-your-materials\"><strong>Prepare Your Materials<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<p>Gather all your toys, lubes, cleaning supplies, materials, <strong>and the protective layer you&#8217;ll sit or lay on.<\/strong> Have them close at hand (or in whatever spot you need). You don&#8217;t want to have to stop and go get something in the middle of your session. By now, it will probably be quick for you to make a checklist for those forgetful days. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Some suggestions for what you can use to protect your bedding, furniture, or carpet<\/strong>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Latex or rubber sex sheets<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>XL doggie bathroom pads<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A couple of towels<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>An old, but clean, bedsheet<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Even a shower curtain <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"562\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-12-edited.png\" alt=\"rubber sheets, latex sheets, anal stretching tips\" class=\"wp-image-11938\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-12-edited.png 1000w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-12-edited-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-12-edited-768x432.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: DHgate &#8211; <strong>Called sex bedding, waterproof bedding, etc. Lots out there, and it doesn&#8217;t have to cost a fortune.<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\" id=\"h-prepare-your-body-mind\"><strong>Prepare Your Body &amp; Mind<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<p>At this stage in your journey, you&#8217;ve probably mastered your relaxation and breathing techniques. But it&#8217;s still a good reminder that any anal basics are always used during anal play. We will go slowly, take relaxing breaths, etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can have a warm bath or shower, prepare any visual\/audio stimulations you might need, have your room temperature and environment the way you prefer, and make sure you won&#8217;t be interrupted. Or, if there&#8217;s the off chance an Amazon package will arrive early\/late, have a bathrobe close at hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\" id=\"h-lube-like-hell\"><strong>Lube Like Hell<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<p>Again, this isn&#8217;t a surprise, but on this blog, we love to beat the poor &#8220;safety horse&#8221; to death. Sizing up needs a ridiculous amount of anal lube. Apply it to the toy, hands, orifice, etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, there are <strong>sex lube injectors or lube dispensers <\/strong>to make things easier. Keep in mind that the dispensers can only handle normal silicone or water-based lube. Oils, certain gels, or creams might gunk up the lines. If you want to buy one, do extensive research to make sure they&#8217;re compatible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1500\" height=\"938\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-13-edited.png\" alt=\"sex lube injector, anal lube, anal play with large sex toys\" class=\"wp-image-11940\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-13-edited.png 1500w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-13-edited-300x188.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-13-edited-1024x640.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-13-edited-768x480.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1500px) 100vw, 1500px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: Source Unknown &#8211; <strong>This is a sex lube injector. Convenient and not as messy.<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\" id=\"h-assume-the-position\"><strong>Assume the Position<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<p>Everyone has a few positions they prefer during anal sex. But anal stretching might have different ones. And, as you go up in size, you might need to alter your position. Whatever you choose, it should be something comfortable that you can maintain comfortably for your entire session.  And yes, changing in the middle is 100% okay. Do what you need to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\" id=\"h-it-s-training-not-thrusting\"><strong>It&#8217;s Training, Not Thrusting<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<p>Remember, whatever items you&#8217;re using, the intent is to gently stretch the area to train it. Even if you&#8217;re using a dildo, the idea is NOT to use any deep thrusting techniques. Granted, yes you&#8217;ll have to move and adjust your toy to get it in and find a comfortable spot. However, <strong>this isn&#8217;t the same as anal sex with large sex toys.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"448\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-11.png\" alt=\"Anal trainers set of 5 in black\" class=\"wp-image-11936\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-11.png 1000w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-11-300x134.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-11-768x344.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: Amazon &#8211; <strong>These are anal dilators. Great designs and are perfect for anal stretching.<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\" id=\"h-use-the-sphincter-trick\"><strong>Use The Sphincter Trick<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<p>If you didn&#8217;t know this, actually pushing your sphincter during toy insertion (as opposed to puckering or tensing) can help things go smoother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\" id=\"h-stepping-up-in-size\"><strong>Stepping Up In Size<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<p>Differences in circumference (even length) should be incremental. Once the toy you&#8217;re playing with is mastered and becomes very easy to insert, then you can choose the next size up. Don&#8217;t be size greedy though. As for how long it takes, that&#8217;s totally different for each person. So never compare what other people use &#8211; especially porn stars.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\" id=\"h-play-the-waiting-game\"><strong>Play the Waiting Game<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<p>Your sizing should be more about<strong> relaxing with the toy inside you for the allotted time.<\/strong> Just let it sit there and let your anal muscles get used to things. And, if you become uncomfortable, it&#8217;s okay to stop sooner than expected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-clean-up\"><strong>How To Clean Up <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"732\" height=\"412\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-220-edited.png\" alt=\"anal douche bulb, anal douching, how to clean before anal play\" class=\"wp-image-11872\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-220-edited.png 732w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-220-edited-300x169.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 732px) 100vw, 732px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: Source Unknown<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The order you do this is up to you, but generally, I find this is the best way. Mostly because you want to clean up your body so you don&#8217;t make tiny messes as you&#8217;re going about the rest of your cleaning process. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\" id=\"h-wash-yourself\"><strong>Wash Yourself<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<p>Wash your hands properly with antibacterial soap, have a shower (or just wipe if that&#8217;s all you need). Pay particular attention to under your fingernails, and if you have a vagina, make sure there has been no accidental leaks or cross-pollination that could cause an infection don&#8217;t the line. A thorough cleaning will also help refresh you and give you a moment to mentally transition out of your bum-related headspace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s also worth noting that <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/kink-bdsm\/aftercare\">aftercare <\/a><\/strong>is a valid addition if you need it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\" id=\"h-clean-up-any-accidents\"><strong>Clean Up Any Accidents<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<p>Let&#8217;s be realistic. <strong>No matter how careful you are, the more anal stuff you do, there&#8217;s always the chance that some of your bowels will come out to say hello. <\/strong>It&#8217;s just our bodies and nothing to be ashamed of. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, even if you&#8217;re hands have been cleaned well, you might need or want to put on latex or washing gloves to clean up, deal with your protective sheet layer, and clean your surrounding area (like where you had all your materials waiting on stand by. Use whatever cleaning aids you feel are best in that situation. It could be quick. You might have to deal with some spot stains. Or you could feel more clean by using a disinfecting cleaning spray.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Opening windows, lighting a scented candle, or spraying room deodorizers are also helpful if you don&#8217;t like the after-scent of your session.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1500\" height=\"937\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-9-edited.png\" alt=\"bathroom pet pads, anal stretching\" class=\"wp-image-11930\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-9-edited.png 1500w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-9-edited-300x187.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-9-edited-1024x640.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-9-edited-768x480.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1500px) 100vw, 1500px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: Source Unknown &#8211; <strong>There are bathroom pads for humans and pets. I just often find the pet ones cheaper. But they&#8217;re the same concept.<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color\" id=\"h-clean-your-toys\"><strong>Clean Your Toys<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<p>Properly cleaning any sex toy means you first give it a proper rinse or whip-down to get the excess off (including lube). Then (based on the manufacturer&#8217;s suggestions) use whatever cleaning solutions to sterilize your toy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It could include<strong> antibacterial soap<\/strong>, washing a it couple of times, spraying with <strong>disinfectant <\/strong>(useful for metal toys), putting them in the dishwasher or <strong>hot water <\/strong>(if you can), or using a <strong>10% bleach solution<\/strong>. How well you can do it depends on the toy material. Oh, and don&#8217;t forget any nooks and crannies!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After that, rinse them, and <strong>dry them thoroughly. <\/strong>On a clean towel sitting in sunlight is a great way to dry and disinfect. Finally, store your items properly. <strong>Your anal training toys should have their own baggies, boxes, containers, etc.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And, when you&#8217;re about to use the toys again, give them a light clean before use as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-warnings-vs-side-effects\"><strong>Warnings Vs. Side-Effects<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-216-edited.png\" alt=\"Enormous pink butt plug, anal play with large sex toys\" class=\"wp-image-11860\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-216-edited.png 800w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-216-edited-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-216-edited-768x432.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: Alibaba<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>PAIN or DISCOMFORT<\/b> <\/span>\u2013 Aggressive stretching and\/or penetrations will result in pain and could possibly cause something larger than a micro tear \u2013 it could puncture through the membrane into other parts of the body (depending on the design of the toy, etc.) Being &#8220;sore&#8221; the next day isn&#8217;t always lumped in with &#8220;pain&#8221;, just FYI.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>IRRITATIONS &amp; ALLERGIES<\/b><\/span> \u2013 This comes from using unsafe materials and\/or not putting condoms over your toys when you play. Or, you could be allergic to the toy or even the condom you might have put over it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>INCONTINENCE<\/b> <\/span>\u2013 Yep, while your gape is going back down to normal size, there could be new messes. Give your body time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>ANAL FISSURES<\/b><\/span> \u2013 An anal fissure is a small tear or crack in the lining of the anus. It can come from not only anal play, but constipation, or medial issues. The key to avoiding this is to not upsize too fast or big and use lots of lube. Also, cutting and filing your fingernails is a very good idea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Non-Surgical Relief for Anal Fissures -Tips and Treatment Options\" width=\"1170\" height=\"658\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/9kV9la2kwa8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">YouTube\/<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@RebalancePhysicalTherapy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Rebalance Physical Therapy<\/a> <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>RECTAL PROLAPSE<\/b><\/span> \u2013 A rectal prolapse is a condition where the rectum (the last part of the large intestine) slips or protrudes out of the anus. It can occur due to weakened pelvic muscles, chronic constipation, or physical strain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When this happens, it can be a bit uncomfortable and may cause symptoms like pain, difficulty with bowel movements, or even some leakage. If you think you have one, go to the hospital! Better safe than shy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0099;\"><b>SEXUAL INFECTIONS<\/b><\/span> \u2013 If you partake in unprotected sex while pushing your anal boundaries, those tears increase the risk of infection through the roof.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-which-anal-sex-toys-are-safe-for-stretching\"><strong>Which Anal Sex Toys Are Safe for Stretching<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns are-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-2 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Dildos <\/strong>of any kind as long as they have a flared base and or narrow base neck to stop them from getting lots up your bum. There are some fantasy dildos out there for those who don&#8217;t want penis-looking ones.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Vibrators <\/strong>are just buzzy dildos, so they&#8217;re good too if you want extra stimulation.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Large anal trainer<\/strong> <strong>sets <\/strong>(also called <strong>anal dilators<\/strong>) are great and specifically designed for this stuff.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Butt plugs<\/strong> are similar to trainers but come with more bells and whistles &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/r\/1cfpos\"><strong>like app control, vibrations, etc.<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Anal beads <\/strong>come in all shapes and measurements &#8211; even for size queens.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Inflatable anal toys<\/strong> are useful as long as you&#8217;re careful.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Anal speculum<\/strong>s come in either medical styles or BDSM styles. Research best practices before using these.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-215-edited.png\" alt=\"large anal dildo, anal sex toys\" class=\"wp-image-11858\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-215-edited.png 600w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-215-edited-300x169.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: maleq.org &#8211; Titanmen Intimidator Black Plug. <strong>I wish the base was wider. It would be much safer. <\/strong>Remember &#8211;<strong> FLARE BASE, or a ringed end, or a long string attachment is vital to not having lost up your bum.<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Body-safe materials include<strong> silicone, proper<\/strong> glass, ABS plastic, sealed wood, and medical-grade stainless steel. Anything else will be porous and will hold on to bacteria no matter how hard you try to clean them. This comes with a downside \u2013 many of those materials are not flexible or squishy, which some people prefer or even need during large toy play. <strong>Silicone will give you the most flexibility.<\/strong> You&#8217;ll also need to <strong>make sure the texture isn&#8217;t rough.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is <strong>TPE\/TPR rubber.<\/strong> The upside? It\u2019s softer. The downside? <strong>It\u2019s quite&nbsp;porous<\/strong>. If you REALLY are determined to play with this material, put a condom over it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anything other than that, avoid it. The rest run the risk of having unsafe ingredients that could cause rashes, allergic reactions, or worse. The most prominent example is Jelly \u2013 stay the hell away from it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-faqs-about-getting-a-bigger-bum-hole\"><strong>FAQs About Getting a Bigger Bum Hole<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"536\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-212-1024x536.png\" alt=\"row of 3 peaches that look like butts, proper anal training\" class=\"wp-image-11853\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-212-1024x536.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-212-300x157.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-212-768x402.png 768w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-212.png 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: Getty<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"schema-faq wp-block-yoast-faq-block\"><div class=\"schema-faq-section\" id=\"faq-question-1693403766139\"><strong class=\"schema-faq-question\">How effective is proper anal training?<\/strong> <p class=\"schema-faq-answer\">Done correctly, <strong>anal stretching is very effective<\/strong> and generally doesn&#8217;t have long-term implications. Just be careful if your goal is <strong>huge anal toys.<\/strong> Then, find an understanding, non-judgmental healthcare professional, that understands safe external and internal body modification to help you along your journey.<\/p> <\/div> <div class=\"schema-faq-section\" id=\"faq-question-1693403767443\"><strong class=\"schema-faq-question\">Will my anus stay wide or loose?<\/strong> <p class=\"schema-faq-answer\">Nope. Like the video above mentioned, our bodies are amazing. Our bums will go back to normal as long as you&#8217;re doing it safely. <\/p> <\/div> <div class=\"schema-faq-section\" id=\"faq-question-1693403768928\"><strong class=\"schema-faq-question\">When can I size up?<\/strong> <p class=\"schema-faq-answer\">That&#8217;s up to you and your comfort levels. But if the new size ends up being too uncomfortable, find something in between.<\/p> <\/div> <div class=\"schema-faq-section\" id=\"faq-question-1693403769838\"><strong class=\"schema-faq-question\">What is the best position?<\/strong> <p class=\"schema-faq-answer\">That is another personal preference. Some people like to be on their backs or stomachs. Others like doggie style or squatting over the toy until it&#8217;s in, then changing to something more comfortable. You do you.<\/p> <\/div> <div class=\"schema-faq-section\" id=\"faq-question-1693403770750\"><strong class=\"schema-faq-question\">Can I play with large anal toys if I have certain medical conditions?<\/strong> <p class=\"schema-faq-answer\">Generally, the answer is no. 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If we can&#8217;t feel it, we can&#8217;t take care of it. Slow sizing and great normal lube should be enough.<\/p> <\/div> <\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-anal-stretching-for-large-sex-toys-end-thoughts\"><strong>Anal Stretching for Large Sex Toys &#8211; End Thoughts<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"965\" height=\"543\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-218-edited.png\" alt=\"orange and white traffic cone, safe anal stretching, anal play with large sex toys\" class=\"wp-image-11864\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-218-edited.png 965w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-218-edited-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/image-218-edited-768x432.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 965px) 100vw, 965px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: Adobe Stock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What works for one person, might not work for another. <\/strong>That&#8217;s why advanced anal stretching or training should always involve careful experimentation and plenty of research. <strong>Some people report feeling a bit of an ache the next day. <\/strong>Some say it&#8217;s normal. 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If an anal stretching master says their soreness is normal, that doesn&#8217;t mean the ach you feel is okay for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Be mindful of your body and visit a healthcare professional if you&#8217;re not sure.<\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-want-more-useful-articles-like-this\">Want More Useful Articles Like This?<\/h2>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\"><a title=\"This guide will help those who are just starting out (or just curious) about anal play, specifically with anal toys (and maybe with a solo approach). \" href=\"https:\/\/www.lovense.com\/sex-tips\/beginners-anal-play\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Guide to<strong> Beginner\u2019s Anal Play <\/strong>and Anal Toys<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\"><a title=\"If anal sex is on your horizons, make sure you have the right tools for the job \u2013 including the best anal lube. 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