Flexer Comparison – This or Other Lovense Toys?

So, Lovenes has come out with its fingering vibrator Flexer. However, you might be a little conflicted on it’s the one for you. Mostly because there are other toys that have hints of the same play-flavor.

Well, here is a simple toy comparison with Flexer, Lush 3, Ferri, and Dolce – all wearable toys that might have you muddled.


Let’s start with the newest one [seen on the cover]. Flexer is a unique sex toy (compared to the other ones) because one of its three motors controls a mechanism that creates a come-hither motion in the insertable part of the toy. The other two motors control the g-spot and clit vibrators.

  • Key Feature – Fingering Motions
  • Public wear – Yes, but with panties to keep in place
  • Adjustable – No
  • Quiet – Not so much, but maybe in the second generation it will be quieter
  • All Lovense App Features – Yes

Who will like Flexer?

Anyone looking for a fun and unique sex toy would probably like Flexer. Also, if you want a different kind of sensation besides just vibrations as well as something that’s hands-free (as opposed to Nora, which you have to hold onto). Finally, if you’re not fazed by first-generation toys or that the sound might be a little on the noisy side.


Flexer comparison - Dolce by Lovense

Dolce is a dual-ended vibrator – with one motor for the insertable part that sits against the g-spot and another for the clit vibrator. What makes this one special is that the toy can be adjusted in the middle to be as wide or as narrow a “V” shape as your body prefers. This is especially important if you want to wear it out in public and want it to stay put.

  • Key Feature – Adjustable neck
  • Public wear – Yes, might not need panties
  • Adjustable – Yes
  • Quiet – Fairly, but not for quiet areas like coffee shops or galleries
  • All Lovense App Features – Yes

Who will like Dolce?

Dolce is great for those who love g-spot and clit stimulation with power. But you also need the ability to change your toy to exactly fit your body’s internal shape. It’s not a toy that HAS to be worn for public play, it’s totally fine for the bedroom or to be worn around the house. Still, it has the option for places like clubs or wherever you want to get spicy.


Flexer comparison - Ferri by Lovense

Ferri is a fun little toy for those who like clit action and a toy that stays put. Ferry’s magnetic clip attaches to any panty and lets you go about your day (public or discreet private). It’s not insertable – whether that’s a pro or a con is totally personal.

  • Key Feature – A panty vibrator that stays put
  • Public wear – Yes
  • Adjustable – “Yes” the magnetic cap lets you put it anywhere along your panties you prefer
  • Quiet – Fairly, but not for quiet areas like coffee shops or galleries
  • All Lovense App Features – Yes

Who will like Ferri?

Ferri is great for two specific reasons. First, if you want only hands-free clit stimulation. Second, if you’re on a budget but still want a Lovense toy (since Ferri is the most affordable). Ferri is fantastic for public play but that doesn’t mean you can wear it around the house or during your pillow dates. It’s a perfect toy for foreplay.


Flexer comparison - Lush 3 by Lovense

Lush has been the cornerstone of Lovense’s portfolio for years now. And by the third generation, this insertable love egg has plenty of positives (mostly from user feedback). It’s decently-sized g-spot section is good for targeting the sweet spot without being uncomfortable. The thin neck also makes sure it stays in place while you’re wearing it in (discreet) public scenarios.

  • Key Feature – A strong-vibe love egg that stays in place
  • Public wear – Yes
  • Adjustable – No
  • Quiet – Decently yes. Just not for super quiet areas in discreet public play
  • All Lovense App Features – Yes

Who will like Lush 3?

If you want an established, thoroughly tested sex toy that is only internal and g-spot-focused (obviously hands-free). Lush is powerful and stays in place. It’s amazing for in-bed shenanigans or something outside your home. Plenty of people have tested it in discreet public places and loved it.


All toys have all the bells and whistles that come with Lovense Remote App. So, you’ll have the Bluetooth connection, long-distance connection, alarm vibrations, pattern database, etc. The same goes for warranty and whatnot.

  • FLEXER – come-hither movements with g-spot and clit vibrations
  • DOLCE – adjustable, wearable g-spot and clit vibrator
  • FERRI – clit panty vibrator, external only
  • Lush – powerful g-spot love egg

There really is no right or wrong choice with these toys. It really comes down to what you specifically need/want for function and pleasure. But, hopefully, this helped clear things up a little!

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R.Z. 11/22/2022 - 12:22 pm

Hi, will there be something like the Flexer but for anal use (combination of Flexer and Edge 2)?

Robyn 11/23/2022 - 5:05 pm

I don’t know, but Ill pass that along to the development team 🙂