Erotic Spanking – How to Properly Paddle That Posterior

For those of you who were brought up in a time or household where switches, belts, and wooden spoons were a common form of punishment, it’s understandable why the idea of spanking would be a total turn-off.

But let’s make a very important distinction:

There is an ENORMOUS difference between spanking, erotic spanking.

One makes you want to sprint away like an Olympic contender and call social services. The other makes you want to run towards the bedroom and scream that you’ve been a bad little boy/girl.

So, while you’re sitting there, backside tingling with anticipation or curiosity, let’s peel back the panties of this situation and have a peek…

THE CHEMISTRY AND PSYCHOLOGY OF SPANKING


Think of some other bedroom antics that create pain: pulling hair, running nails down the back, biting, etc.

They can hurt like hell (and often leave marks behind), so why do we savor the sensation?

The answer is simple.

When we’re stressed or in pain, our brains release A LOT of chemicals: endorphin, serotonin, melatonin, epinephrine, norepinephrine, and dopamine. And not just physical pain but emotional and social discomfort as well – all for the purpose of re-balancing our bodies and trying to make us feel good again.

One of the key players is dopamine, which is present in the body during pain AND pleasure.

Many agree this might be one of the reasons we can combine pain and pleasure in a single situation.

It’s like running until your muscles flip you the middle finger but reveling in the exercise “high”. It hurts like hell, but, goddamn it, it feels good too!

Another fun fact comes from Basic Orgasm 101…

Sexual peaks are (in part) achieved when blood flow increases and collects in key hot spots or erogenous zones.

The act of spanking can add another element of pleasure because the posterior is plentiful with nerves and right next door to the genitals. Strikes and slaps send waves and ripples through the skin and stimulate this fun area.

There are also emotional and psychological aspects of pain and pleasure.

  • Submission – giving up control to another person
  • Humiliation – a form of psychological pain
  • Sexual objectification – the sexual value of the body as an object
  • Role-playing – participating in sexual fantasies

Now that we understand why, let’s look at the HOW.

PREPARING THE PADDLE


There is much to do before someone should even tug on panties or boxers.

1. Bring up the subject

With all healthy BDSM practices, communication is key.

Unless you’ve established ground rules beforehand, diving into Happy Slap Land is not an option.

If your partner is more to the vanilla side or spanking hasn’t been integrated into your sex arsenal, there’s doubly more preparation involved.

Whether you do this carefully or bluntly depends entirely on you and your significant other. Hopefully, your relationship already includes talks about sexual preferences or desires. If so, you can try something like, “I hear a lot about spanking. I wonder what it would be like?” or “I’ve always wondered about (insert erotic fantasy here)”

If your partner is already experienced in the world of kink, it might be as simple as, “God, I would love if you spanked me.”

Next, comes the ground rules. After all, this kind of antics lands well past “light play”.

2. Safe Words

No matter what kind of kink you are into, you should have a safe word.

Why? When we are role-playing, sometimes “No”, “Don’t”, or “Stop” are part of the fantasy. However, if someone yells “PINEAPPLE!” it’s a very clear signal that play needs to stop.

If you’re not sure what word to choose, it can be anything that you normally wouldn’t say, something easy to remember that pulls people out of the elation and makes them re-focus.

Many couples opt for the “traffic light” system:

  • Green = Give me more! I love it!
  • Yellow = I’m nearing my limit. Something needs to be adjusted
  • Red = STOP ALL PLAY!

In which case, the dominant should obey, immediately see to any emotional/physical needs or problems, and communicate with their partner.

WARNING: someone who does not respect a safety word, is NOT someone you should play with. Healthy BDSM play should always involve respect from both sides.

Want some other safe word ideas? Check out this article:

Good Safe Words and Uses in Media

3. With great spanking comes great responsibility

If you are the “Top” in this delightful situation, you shouldn’t only focus on that delicious bum. You need to pay attention to their whole body.

Are they squirming like a happy worm or squirming like a worm who isn’t enjoying the experience?

It can take time to learn your partner’s pain thresholds and familiarize yourself with their reactions. If you’re not sure, it’s OKAY to ask things like:

  • “Are you alright?”
  • “Do you like it?”
  • “Do you want it harder or softer?”

Communication is key, and it’s perfectly acceptable to tell each other what you like or don’t like.

GETTING THE SCENE READY


This includes anything that makes the environment and experience as pleasant as possible for both parties (including your frame of mind).

Turn off the phone

Nothing pulls someone out of the mood more than Mexican Hat Dance blasting through the room while you’re propped against the table with your underwear around your ankles.

Take it off

This means all rings, watches, bracelets, etc. Hitting with those is NOT fun, and nobody wants an imprint of your college football ring on their ass.

Prepare any tools

 If you haven’t filled your toy chest yet, there are lots of things around the house that work just fine (spatulas, rulers, paint sticks, elastic bands, hairbrushes, etc).

Of course, you will use your hands, but different tools give different sensations and there might be a couple in there that drives him/her wild. Try paddles, floggers, whips, or canes.

NOTE: make sure you practice with them ahead of time – on a pillow is best.

Don’t forget that blindfolds, restraints, even ball gags can be added into play to spice things up even more. However, if you use a ball-gag, verbal communication won’t be possible. You will have to agree on a non-verbal form of a safe word.

A FUN THING TO TRY: Make one partner get things ready while the other watches. Sit back with a non-alcoholic refreshment while your “spankee” scrambles to make things perfect. OR, The “spanker” could slowly put things in place while their partner sits, lies down, even kneels while awaiting the act. Anticipation can be just as sexy as the act itself.

Erotic Spanking falls within the BDSM category. Learn more here:

What is BDSM? Essential Concepts for Beginners

LOCATION LOCATION LOCATION


Will you begin with a hot and heavy make-out session on the sofa or grab them by the hair, pin them to the table, and go straight to business? Do you prefer the comfort of the bedroom or is the coffee table a sexy spot? Maybe restraints are on the menu.

Whether bent over furniture, on the bed, or over your knee – anywhere is acceptable as long as both of you are comfortable and the spanker can reach key areas with ease (pillows are great for propping things up and giving support).

You also don’t have to stay in one place the entire time. Different positions will stretch or relax the skin, making each slap a different sensation.

STRETCH BEFORE RUNNING


We should always warm-up before exercising, and the same goes for spanking. Begin with light caresses, kisses, or a massage.

When you are sure his/her ass is ready, start with some light slaps. This will get the blood flowing, skin ready, and muscles relaxed, which is essential to a pleasant experience.

Nothing ruins the moment more than going too hard and too fast.

Another thing to keep in mind is WHERE ON THE BODY to spank.

Always, ALWAYS, keep to the “meatiest” part of the bum (the lower part) – anywhere else risks damage and can be considered outside the “safe, sane, and consensual” rule.

There are a couple areas away from the golden zone that are acceptable, but you should never spend too much time there, be extra cautious, and avoid using too much power. See the picture below for a better idea.

When the backside is nice and pink, then it’s time to break out the big guns and really make them squeal with delight.

NOTE: Many rules still apply when you use spanking as a BDSM punishment.

Punishment Spankings not your cup of tea? Get other ideas here:

45 BDSM Punishment Ideas

ONE SPANK, TWO SPANKS, THREE SPANKS, MORE!


You’ve just passed Erotic Spanking 101. You now have the know-how and tools to go forth and fill the world with pink bottoms.

HAND POSITIONS

Open palm with fingers together, open palm with fingers spread, cupped hand, fists. All of them create different sensations but remember to watch your partner’s reactions and adjust accordingly.

STINGS (SPEED & SURFACE)  

These are shallow strikes felt on the surface of the skin which come from fast movements confined to a small area. These burn and can leave behind lines and welts (if you do it hard enough). Toys can include canes, braided floggers, or anything that adds to velocity.

THUDS (FORCE & DEPTH) 

These are deeper strikes over a wider area and the opposite of stings. They ripple right through the muscles but may leave bruises that last longer. Accomplished by: heavier paddles, mop floggers, thick straps, or the palm of your hand.

OTHER SENSATIONS

It doesn’t have to be something out of a corporal punishment scene – like a bad student bent over the teacher’s knee, getting a hard smacking for cheating on a test … although that can be fun too. Strikes can be mixed up with caressing, tickling, pinching, scratching, or (my personal favorite) grabbing a handful of ass right after a strike. Some paddles have a soft side you can run along the skin.

Try a rabbit fur flogger (their softness alone is orgasmic). If you’re using a hairbrush, run the bristle side along the skin.

RHYTHM

We can make all the jokes we like about percussion instruments, but spanking the derriere can be like playing the drums. Work with fast and slow strikes to change things and keep your partner on their toes (or back…or knees).

REMEMBER:  And I will say this again and again — Watch them carefully. See what garners a positive reaction. They might exclusively prefer soft slaps, or they could revel in deep thuds. Some people enjoy a mix. Things can also change session to session.

Change is allowed. It’s all good.

AFTERCARE


There is a good chance you might want to jump into other “activities” after – you’ll both be turned on after all (at least if you’ve done it right). But never forget to close the scene with some aftercare.

Was it your first time or are you a veteran? What is a big session or a brief one? What kind of care you deliver depends entirely on the kind of session you just had. It could be anything from a long conversation about what worked and what didn’t (for both parties), to a quick kiss and cuddle.

Maybe they need some water, a bit of chocolate, some aloe vera, or muscle cream. Perhaps the only way they can come down from the body’s chemical high is good, long cry and you need to hold them close.

Nobody should ever just “walk away” from a scene.

A HANDY REVIEW LIST


THINGS TO DO

  • Communicate before, during, and after
  • Practice with your tools beforehand and on a pillow
  • Test your tools on yourself to learn their intensity
  • Choose a safety word
  • Watch body language
  • Deliver aftercare
  • Have a medical kit on-hand
  • Remember: it’s not about how hard you want to hit, it’s how hard they want you to hit

THINGS NOT TO DO

  • Begin too hard too fast
  • Hit too hard or frequently
  • Play if someone has bleeding disorders or is on medication that affects bleeding
  • Hit near the spine, kidneys, or other vital organs
  • Overdo it – permanent damage is a no-no

ENDING ON AN IMPORTANT NOTE


Fear can often stop us from exploring the unknown, but don’t be afraid to try new things.

However, if you try something and don’t enjoy it, you do not have to do it again.

It’s not like choking back your mother’s cooking or enduring a crappy job – there’s no obligation to continue with something you don’t love.

Erotic spanking (and other kinky activities) might not be for you, and that’s okay.

If it is for you … your nights just got a whole lot hotter.

Anything you want to add? Share in the comments!

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72 comments

MJ 09/16/2020 - 12:00 am

Everyone should get their ass spanked! It is so awesome and feels incredible! My partner loves to do this to me and i totally get into it! I know he loves to hear me moan and move my ass up for another spank! Can’t wait for tonight! He’s going to work me totally from behind!!!

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naughty billy 09/04/2020 - 12:00 am

How would punish a naughty boy for biting his fingernails? Would you spank him and if so how much/hard?

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markiee 08/31/2020 - 12:00 am

My wife (6 2 190 lbs.) is bigger, stronger & more dominate the me (5 10 165 lbs.). I received my 1st naked spanking from her on our wedding night. She took a shower 1st, then I did. I had my towel wrapped around me when she came into the bathroom & led me to the hotel bed, sat down, put me otk.

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Slave 07/20/2020 - 12:00 am

I want to know what will leave a good amount of bruising? Weve got a round leather covered spiked paddle, tawse, multi strand cane and single canes, slut paddle and we cant seem to make anything bruise. I want to remember what we did when I go to work every time I sit down. Any tips?

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Sub 11/13/2020 - 12:00 am

Try a bamboo paddle with holes. Hurts like hell and will leave a few marks

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G.Marie 06/27/2020 - 12:00 am

I am trying to come back too this scene! It wasn’t successful in our 30s he just wasn’t in to it! After cancer of the anal, and not have any sex for the last 17 years,I I had a dream last night that really turned me on! How do I handle it?

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Leah 06/03/2020 - 12:00 am

Im in Knoxville, tn and am in need of a very hard over the knee spanking, preferably with a paddle and cant find anyone willing to do this. Any tips out there?

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Michael wears panties 03/14/2020 - 12:00 am

I love it when my wife paddles my bottom. She buys me panties to wear and then when she catches me wearing them I get spanked. She has ordered some paddles and floggers and uses them on me regularly. I scream with painful delight when she uses the bamboo switch on my panty-clad bottom.

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Jacobus 01/12/2020 - 12:00 am

Reply to Newtothis,
Part 2:
The writer suggested beginning with handspanking, good idea. And, need to be bare for spanker to monitor skin conditions. Stronger spanks:
If concerned for abrasions, spanker could coat the area in coconut oil and use a silicone paddle (they wash well).
Fresh aloe gel!

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Jacobus 01/12/2020 - 12:00 am

Newtothis,
You asked, Does spanking the butt scar if done in the safe zones? I know bruising will happen, but will there be permanent damage?
Depends on WHAT the instrument is, HOW it is used, and WHO is doing it. And the Aftercare. I suggest:
Flexible & smooth, Lovingly, Trustworthy.

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Maureen 12/27/2019 - 12:00 am

I got turned on to spankings from a memory I had from middle school Vice Principal he told me if I misbehaved he would give me a paddling I would never forget.I have never been spanked or paddled but this memory gets me hot. What should I do? I am single in my 50s.

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lanybug21 12/10/2019 - 12:00 am

i am a total newbie but i do have a masochist friend who when she comes to get belts from my place(cause shes forgetful and leaves little things all the time) shell prop her leg up and hit the top of her calf (normally while wearing jeans)she noticed me watching and asked if i wanted to

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Angela 11/08/2019 - 12:00 am

I want to be spanked by my dom/boyfriend, but I am afraid that he will overdo it.
I am trying to slowly bring him to the BDSM side, and it is slowly working, but he doesnt know how everything works yet. Any ideas on how I could explain it to him.

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Andrea 09/28/2020 - 12:00 am

Just ask him to spank you while you have sex in doggie-style ….thats the first step. If he is in it, than you can slowly take it, step by stp, to a rel spanking session.
But if he is not in it, than youll should forget, he is not the type. And you cant change that.

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Spanker & Spankee 10/24/2019 - 12:00 am

I am a 22 year old single boy. I would loved to be spanked by a hot girl. And spank her too!
I really like the role play idea. I want to be a bad student/son & she will be my teacher/mom. That would be a very hot experience.

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Sorebum52 10/23/2019 - 12:00 am

I do self spankings on my bare bum

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Rennie Gade 12/16/2019 - 12:00 am

Me too. I use an oval-shaped, wooden hairbrush, and each spank on my bum and my upper thighs is like an exquisite thorny kiss. I crave the sting like a narcotic, and with my bumcheeks resembling nothing so much as two creamy smooth, water-filled balloons, Ive had a lifetime of serious indulging.

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New to this 10/22/2019 - 12:00 am

Does spanking the butt scar if done in the safe zones? I know bruising will happen, but will there be permanent damage?

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Tynan 10/17/2019 - 12:00 am

Marianne, that is exactly the way it was done in my marriage. She spanked me when she thought it was deserved, and I had to admit she was right. I think it kept our marriage healthy longer than it would have been had she not done this.
I badly miss that discipline toay.

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Marrianne 10/01/2019 - 12:00 am

It is an ocassional thing in our household but on the odd time I think my husband has in any way disrespectedme I strap his naked bottom very thoroughly. Maybe twice a year. we have an active sex life, but never after a punishment. I am 31 – he is 29.

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Terry 09/10/2019 - 12:00 am

I love being paddled by my wife she is getting quite good at it and it has brought us closer together

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Tony Conrad 06/18/2020 - 12:00 am

Same here. My wife is vanilla We dont do discipline. Its just a sexual thing.

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Tony Conrad 06/18/2020 - 12:00 am

Somebody asked if it bruises. I would say that in a normal person no. My wife uses the paddle and her hand but it doesnt leave any permanent mark. There is temporary redness which disappears quite quickly. A shame really as I love to have some sign that it happened.

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Kittens Property 07/29/2019 - 12:00 am

My wife is afraid to really spank me for fear of injuring me. She has a small collection of paddles I either bought or made for her.

How do I convinced her there is a big difference between pain and injury? A bruised ass may hurt for a few days and make sitting uncomfortable but it will heal.

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New2spanks 10/13/2019 - 12:00 am

My husband and I are the same way. I find spankings to be unfathomable as good due to growing up with an abuser. My husband really likes erotic spanking. I dont understand or enjoy doing it, but will because he enjoys it.

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Vicky 07/27/2019 - 12:00 am

I really need to be spanked!

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Tynan 10/19/2019 - 12:00 am

Vicky, I am one of many men who would be happy to talk to you respectfully and then give you a spanking if you agreed.

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Bill 01/06/2020 - 12:00 am

Be careful with ads and with people you dont know. Find a friend you trust or a professional Dom with a good reputation.

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Andre 04/08/2020 - 12:00 am

After its over you can do additional punishments. This includes extra swats that they must count, extra seats with multiple implements, keeping the bottom bare for the day or no clothing on till the top gives permission, or a combination of two or 3 or more of these.

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William 07/07/2019 - 12:00 am

IIm completely new to this, yet a very willing participant. I have a bubble bottom that can definitely absorb a good paddling, but itits been so long I dondont know what its like or how Id react to it. Ideally Im really seeking a good paddling/spanking to see what I can endure. Thanks4feedback

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Jocelyn McDonald 06/24/2019 - 12:00 am

My husband and I want to spice up our marriage a bit, and were thinking of getting some spanking paddles. Your article had great tips for doing something like this, and I liked how you said we should both agree on a safe word that will work as a signal if the rough play needs to stop. Thanks; well

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Al 12/05/2018 - 12:00 am

Why is it so hard for a sixty-four-year-old gentleman to find a lady friend who will give spankings and other forms of domestic discipline on a regular basis for behavior modification and accountability I would love an LTR, Ive tried many dating sites but no luck anybody have any suggestions.

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Tom 10/21/2019 - 12:00 am

Dating sites are the worst place, probability wise. Yet I understand using them because I live in a small, conservative town. You have to contact and reject hundreds. I suggest being subtle in your profile, but direct enough that there is no question to your intentions. They will come.

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Mistress Nectar 08/08/2018 - 12:00 am

I’m curious as to what kind of physical aftercare that might help potential bruising or minor skin irritation that comes with spanking.

Since I’m somewhat new to this, I really want to be absolutely prepared more in the aftercare and preventing/Healing any kind of physical
Injury.

GoodArticleBTW

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robyn256 08/09/2018 - 12:00 am

Aloe cream is a good one. It should be a part of any after-care kit. Then there is a cool/cold wash clothe to help soothe any irritation or bring down swelling. Arnica is a herb for swelling and irritation. Vitamin K and/or C are good (topically). Comfrey cream is another possibility.

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DeKunt 05/12/2019 - 12:00 am

Massaging the bruises helps to break up the blood trapped under the skin that causes the discoloration. It can be uncomfortable to massage a sore spot of the body so I suggest holding your partner close to you and using reassuring language while giving a thorough rubdown.

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ragtime74 05/07/2020 - 12:00 am

Arnica oil rub down

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Patsy 07/08/2018 - 12:00 am

I am an older woman and would like try spanking. Gently. Maybe during a massage but don’t know where to look in San Antonio.

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Bbqman 03/30/2019 - 12:00 am

Ill do it

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paul g 11/02/2019 - 12:00 am

durning a enema would b a good time otk

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Tony Conrad 07/04/2018 - 12:00 am

I believe sex should only be in marriage. Spanking is allowed though and I enjoy the way my wife does it.

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Chris 06/21/2018 - 12:00 am

I prefer a lady to paddle me, or use a belt for more severe, and a switch for most severe.
I like the ladies to tell me I’ve been a bad boy and make me count the number of strokes.

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Katerina 06/03/2018 - 12:00 am

I love to spank, but I don’t have anyone who will do it. Anu tips on self-spanking? Also I don’t have access to anything but household items

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Bob g 06/14/2018 - 12:00 am

A coat hanger

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robyn256 06/26/2018 - 12:00 am

There’s self-flogging and that sort of thing. Eg. if you had one of those really long rulers or shoe horns – just make sure you’re striking in the right area and not missing/hitting any vital areas.

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eric breedlove 10/01/2018 - 12:00 am

why you want spanking

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Tynan 10/17/2019 - 12:00 am

Katerina, there are hundreds of gentlemen who would be very happy to spank you.

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Thwomp555 05/20/2018 - 12:00 am

If anyone is in to the kink, I strongly suggest one thing.
Start at level 0 (this is the tester part).
Then if it is okay, move on to level 1.
Then if it is okay, move on to level 2.
And so on.

NEVER start at level 10, for example. That is going to hurt like hellfire.

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Thwomp555 05/20/2018 - 12:00 am

Very weird question where ANYONE is welcome to answer.
What will happen if a dom orders the sub to cut a switch?
NOT FOR PUNISHMENT SPANKING, but for sexy spanking though. This is key.

I strongly argue that the difference is mainly psychological.
For the basics are the same, or nearly the same.

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ohnomrbill 03/21/2020 - 12:00 am

Great idea, have them cut and trim the buds/branches kneel down and hand it to you, you should swish it in the air and then have them stand bend over and give them a nice swat

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Thwomp555 05/20/2018 - 12:00 am

Who in the world uses a FIST to spank??!!

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Lady Dark Vixen 07/27/2020 - 12:00 am

I don’t know I would describe using a fist on someone’s ass as a spanking, but I’ve seen a lot of punching in the safer, more meatier parts of the ass. However, I define that as a heavy form of impact play.

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mark 05/10/2018 - 12:00 am

My wife is teaching me the rougher side to spanking I’m loving it

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Spanker one on One 05/07/2018 - 12:00 am

I love spanking my wife. We have an entire collection of toys. She always says she does not like it, but she always agrees to it when I order it and of course the sex afterwards is the best. She have the best orgasms during/after spankings. Why?

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Thwomp555 05/20/2018 - 12:00 am

I think neuroscience will explain why.
Although I don’t comprehend the whole thing at the moment.
Suffice to say that there is VERY THIN LINE between pain and pleasure.
For both sensations involve the SAME neurotransmitter DOPAMINE in the brain…
…there is a huge gray zone.

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Thwomp555 05/20/2018 - 12:00 am

By any means, is there mathematics hidden here?
A functional relationship between intensity of spanking and strength of orgasm.
I guess they are proportional to each other, for example y = 1.1x or something like that.
(Key: y = ax type of linear function)

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Alittlemore 05/04/2020 - 12:00 am

Some women find admitting to spanking a bit bizarre. Judging by what you’ve just said, she probably likes it alot but isn’t up to admit it.

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Kala Murry 04/23/2018 - 12:00 am

i need a good spanking

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Steven Petrowske 06/21/2018 - 12:00 am

So do i

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Steven P 06/21/2018 - 12:00 am

I need a good spanking. Nobody wants to do it for me. Any ideas, email me at; [email protected]

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Sexspank 07/16/2018 - 12:00 am

I’ll give you one

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Dann 10/19/2018 - 12:00 am

Mmm

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Juniper 04/08/2019 - 12:00 am

Me too!

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Rob 12/07/2020 - 12:00 am

I need the paddle too!

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David A. Dixon 03/29/2018 - 12:00 am

I’m a Prostate cancer survivor. Changes in my life have led us to be a bit more open to other types of play. I’d love to discuss this further with you.

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robyn256 04/24/2018 - 12:00 am

Sure. Any questions find their way to me at [email protected]

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Thwomp555 05/20/2018 - 12:00 am

Do you think I can find leather paddles, tawses etc. in an adult store?
There is one located on Broadway, Newmarket (this is Auckland, New Zealand, and yep, I live in New Zealand)

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robyn256 05/21/2018 - 12:00 am

I actually find most of the leather toys in most generic sex shops to be lower quality – which I guess is fine if they’re cheap and you’re just starting out. But I would go to more custom kink shops for that kind of stuff.

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Al 06/19/2019 - 12:00 am

Also a prostrate cancer survivor here and I love it when my wife (Robin) spanks me. It is great for our 44 year long and going strong marriage. Only spanking for a year.

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allen 07/16/2019 - 12:00 am

I would love to hear the comments as I am also a prostate cancer survivor

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Keiser 10/15/2017 - 12:00 am

I know she likes it hard and to bruising i have not achieved btuising yet. Thank you for this i thought there was something i was missing but no i see my strikes must ne more precise
… thank u robyn

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robyn256 10/16/2017 - 12:00 am

You’re quite welcome. Good luck and stay safe!

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